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Ebbs and flows - It's bad again... feel like I'm falling. Wisdom?
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 401646" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>Your parents have their own reasons for their behavior, whether it be generational, an issue of control, or good old fashioned well-meaning but misguided intentions.</p><p>You have no more control over their choices than you do your daughter's, and you certainly aren't responsible for the outcome of any of these behaviors/choices.</p><p> </p><p>Loving detachment is hard (I'm a novice and struggle daily). You can let your parents know that you will always be their daughter - you willalways love them, but - for now - they have to accept your tough love stance with your own daughter. What they do is their choice, but they must leave you out of it. </p><p> </p><p>You aren't losing your mother. Her bond to you is still there. Having them move might be the best thing for everyone. daughter wil have to fed for herself and all of you will have the time and peace that you need to reconnect.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there and don't give up.</p><p>Dash</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 401646, member: 9175"] Your parents have their own reasons for their behavior, whether it be generational, an issue of control, or good old fashioned well-meaning but misguided intentions. You have no more control over their choices than you do your daughter's, and you certainly aren't responsible for the outcome of any of these behaviors/choices. Loving detachment is hard (I'm a novice and struggle daily). You can let your parents know that you will always be their daughter - you willalways love them, but - for now - they have to accept your tough love stance with your own daughter. What they do is their choice, but they must leave you out of it. You aren't losing your mother. Her bond to you is still there. Having them move might be the best thing for everyone. daughter wil have to fed for herself and all of you will have the time and peace that you need to reconnect. Hang in there and don't give up. Dash [/QUOTE]
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