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Eeyore is at HIGH SCHOOL
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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 454177" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>Mixed results.</p><p></p><p>Best I can tell, he had a great day except for math. He got either goofy or mouthy to the teacher and got in trouble (I think just a stern look and a "knock it off"). He came home in an okay mood but it went quickly south (as I am sure he was brooding about getting yelled at in math and how by not telling me he was lying and since he was lying that meant he was evil and should be locked up right now and is going to hell).</p><p></p><p>Ended with him storming away from the dinner table and punching a hole in my newly painted foyer wall. Fun. Not. Since with the direction of his therapist we had created a "Clear Expectation" plan listing the 12 things he wants to be allowed to do and our expectations for his behavior and grades in order to be allowed to do those things, I didn't have to think about the punishment. Damage to property is a major offense which results in 7 days of privilige loss and up to 30 days of restrictions (depending on how he is doing across the board, there is a whole chart -- per his request). </p><p></p><p>He prefers to communicate in writing when he is upset so I gave him this letter:</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">It was quiet for a while but I just heard him hit the wall again. Didn't sound hard enough to add another hole to the many in his room....</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 454177, member: 1169"] Mixed results. Best I can tell, he had a great day except for math. He got either goofy or mouthy to the teacher and got in trouble (I think just a stern look and a "knock it off"). He came home in an okay mood but it went quickly south (as I am sure he was brooding about getting yelled at in math and how by not telling me he was lying and since he was lying that meant he was evil and should be locked up right now and is going to hell). Ended with him storming away from the dinner table and punching a hole in my newly painted foyer wall. Fun. Not. Since with the direction of his therapist we had created a "Clear Expectation" plan listing the 12 things he wants to be allowed to do and our expectations for his behavior and grades in order to be allowed to do those things, I didn't have to think about the punishment. Damage to property is a major offense which results in 7 days of privilige loss and up to 30 days of restrictions (depending on how he is doing across the board, there is a whole chart -- per his request). He prefers to communicate in writing when he is upset so I gave him this letter: [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri] It was quiet for a while but I just heard him hit the wall again. Didn't sound hard enough to add another hole to the many in his room.... [/FONT][/COLOR] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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