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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 485084" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Use a different note-paper for each person... and make difficult child's a little bit bigger, or scented, or something. Stress "different"... something appropriate for each person. difficult child can also get MORE notes... and if you tell easy child privately, most PCs are fine with understanding that these things get handed out according to need, not by counting... so difficult child might get more "notes" but the love behind is the same, and easy child will get the ones she needs (like after a bad day at school or at home, or a particularly bright spot...).</p><p></p><p>Fair isn't always equal. PCs get that. difficult children don't. Its tougher if you're dealing with two full-blown difficult children, neither of whcih get it...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 485084, member: 11791"] Use a different note-paper for each person... and make difficult child's a little bit bigger, or scented, or something. Stress "different"... something appropriate for each person. difficult child can also get MORE notes... and if you tell easy child privately, most PCs are fine with understanding that these things get handed out according to need, not by counting... so difficult child might get more "notes" but the love behind is the same, and easy child will get the ones she needs (like after a bad day at school or at home, or a particularly bright spot...). Fair isn't always equal. PCs get that. difficult children don't. Its tougher if you're dealing with two full-blown difficult children, neither of whcih get it... [/QUOTE]
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