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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 142279" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I, too, think that it is appropriate for you to ask for specific guidelines as the path to returning home. It has been my experience that parents have to walk a fine line when dealing with the professionals that they have chosen (or have been chosen) to help their child learn to function appropriately in the real world.</p><p> </p><p>on the other hand your frequent references to his Grandmother does make it appear that his home environment has not been resolved yet either. Teens are very perceptive and often dwell on the weakest spot in their family. A teen who has been troubled is doubly aware of every aspect of unrest.</p><p>in my humble opinion his chances of success are based on many aspects as it is and has been for all our kids, and finding a positive peaceful coexistence with his</p><p>Grandmother is foremost. Your relationship sounds like a bad marriage</p><p>relationship with resentements and jealousy and perhaps unhealthy</p><p>other issues. He needs more than one parent. He needs the security of having faith that he is loved by both of you...as he recognizes that both of you are imperfect, just like he is imperfect. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 142279, member: 35"] I, too, think that it is appropriate for you to ask for specific guidelines as the path to returning home. It has been my experience that parents have to walk a fine line when dealing with the professionals that they have chosen (or have been chosen) to help their child learn to function appropriately in the real world. on the other hand your frequent references to his Grandmother does make it appear that his home environment has not been resolved yet either. Teens are very perceptive and often dwell on the weakest spot in their family. A teen who has been troubled is doubly aware of every aspect of unrest. in my humble opinion his chances of success are based on many aspects as it is and has been for all our kids, and finding a positive peaceful coexistence with his Grandmother is foremost. Your relationship sounds like a bad marriage relationship with resentements and jealousy and perhaps unhealthy other issues. He needs more than one parent. He needs the security of having faith that he is loved by both of you...as he recognizes that both of you are imperfect, just like he is imperfect. DDD [/QUOTE]
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