difficult child-S is so happy. Several friends have commented on just how happy S is. Do to the new computer system our insurance put in, you can't pay for co-pays or medications. They have to send you the bill. So, imagine my surprise when I got difficult child-S's bill for the last three months and the only thing on it was a co-pay for removing a mole. No BiPolar medications, no visits with either of her psychiatrists, no out patient drug classes, no nothing. Awww....Grandma is doing such a good job helping difficult child-S out! No medications, no doctors, no chores, no rules, no consequences. Boy, wish I thought of that... I would have been mother of the year too! But, I am an evil Mom who doesn't want her kids to be happy.