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Ex is going to IEP tomorrow and I'm nervous
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 568274" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Perhaps you could go in and take the bull by the horns. In other words, you say that as a team we need to come up with a plan to get difficult child to school. Explain what you have tried and that now you feel you need a team approach and would like to have a plan for when she refuses school. Ask them if you can call the school officer or community attendance officer to come and get her. Since she is on an IEP the law says that positive behavior approaches are to be used and for some kids this can include bussing. Maybe she needs Special Education door to door transportation? </p><p>Anyway point is, try not to disagree ...act as if you initiated the process ....you are the one who is requestimg support to solve the problem. If they say use consequences explain what you've tried. If their are anxiety issues or other such things these need to be addressed. If difficult child can participate, have her attend a meeting where you all plan together for how she will get there. What goal is she working toward? </p><p></p><p>My friends autistic daughter would freak and not ride her bus many days. She had tons of fears. The school pressed charges but there's a process. She had to go to a psychiatric who said she was a fit mother and her difficult child needed more support including morning PCA time. It could work in your favor.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 568274, member: 12886"] Perhaps you could go in and take the bull by the horns. In other words, you say that as a team we need to come up with a plan to get difficult child to school. Explain what you have tried and that now you feel you need a team approach and would like to have a plan for when she refuses school. Ask them if you can call the school officer or community attendance officer to come and get her. Since she is on an IEP the law says that positive behavior approaches are to be used and for some kids this can include bussing. Maybe she needs Special Education door to door transportation? Anyway point is, try not to disagree ...act as if you initiated the process ....you are the one who is requestimg support to solve the problem. If they say use consequences explain what you've tried. If their are anxiety issues or other such things these need to be addressed. If difficult child can participate, have her attend a meeting where you all plan together for how she will get there. What goal is she working toward? My friends autistic daughter would freak and not ride her bus many days. She had tons of fears. The school pressed charges but there's a process. She had to go to a psychiatric who said she was a fit mother and her difficult child needed more support including morning PCA time. It could work in your favor..... [/QUOTE]
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