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Ex is going to IEP tomorrow and I'm nervous
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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 568364"><p>This might sound really cold, but please don't take it that way. If you ex really thinks that he can do better with her, then let him have her! He thinks that he's father of the year and that his new wifey will be a better mother than you are? Give them a shot! I think that he really does not want to take custody of your kids. I think he just says that because he know it scares the heck out of you, and I honestly think that if you tell him that he can have custory he will run for the hills! Either that, or he will get to see first hand what it's like living with a difficult child child. You think that his wife dislikes the kids now? Wait until they come to live with them!</p><p></p><p>If you are not willing to take this chance (and I would totally understand if you are not) then your ex needs to be told that it's time that the two of you start working together as parents and not adversaries. He uses the kids to get back at you. He's pi$$ed off at you, so he cancels visitation for a few weekends. He doesn't want to drive them back to your house, so calls you and threatens you. He needs to get over whatever his hostility is towards you and the kids and start working on being their parent and not an enemy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 568364"] This might sound really cold, but please don't take it that way. If you ex really thinks that he can do better with her, then let him have her! He thinks that he's father of the year and that his new wifey will be a better mother than you are? Give them a shot! I think that he really does not want to take custody of your kids. I think he just says that because he know it scares the heck out of you, and I honestly think that if you tell him that he can have custory he will run for the hills! Either that, or he will get to see first hand what it's like living with a difficult child child. You think that his wife dislikes the kids now? Wait until they come to live with them! If you are not willing to take this chance (and I would totally understand if you are not) then your ex needs to be told that it's time that the two of you start working together as parents and not adversaries. He uses the kids to get back at you. He's pi$$ed off at you, so he cancels visitation for a few weekends. He doesn't want to drive them back to your house, so calls you and threatens you. He needs to get over whatever his hostility is towards you and the kids and start working on being their parent and not an enemy. [/QUOTE]
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