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Ex is going to IEP tomorrow and I'm nervous
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 569089" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Are you comfortable with your mother saying all those things to your ex like that? Im afraid she just gave him so much power. He now knows his threats hurt you. I just don't get it. Does she think he will suddenly be remorseful and stop? </p><p>Sorry, I just feel so badly for you when she steps in like that and you have complained that she gets in too much. If you wanted her to do it I apologize. I guess I just can't imagine my parents doing anything like that and we are very close. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, the meeting --- are you sure she is not now hitting a wall with her learning limits? Many kids can hold it together until they are older and then if they have processing problems or learning disabilities, it just gets too hard. Does she need a new assessment? I'd request a reevaluation in writing. </p><p></p><p>Have they done a functional behavior assessment? If.not its time to request this in writing too. Just saying "do it or else" is against sp ed rules. An assessment to identify the function of her behaviors must be done and then a positive behavior plan must be written based on developing skills with specific teaching and rewards for steps toward achieving the appropriate behaviors. That is a federal mandate for everyone on an iep. Search functional behavior assessment and positive behavior intervention plan here, on writeslaw and in a general search on the internet. This is why you need an advocate. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there. Hope gdg's dad doesn't get too inappropriate.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 569089, member: 12886"] Are you comfortable with your mother saying all those things to your ex like that? Im afraid she just gave him so much power. He now knows his threats hurt you. I just don't get it. Does she think he will suddenly be remorseful and stop? Sorry, I just feel so badly for you when she steps in like that and you have complained that she gets in too much. If you wanted her to do it I apologize. I guess I just can't imagine my parents doing anything like that and we are very close. Anyway, the meeting --- are you sure she is not now hitting a wall with her learning limits? Many kids can hold it together until they are older and then if they have processing problems or learning disabilities, it just gets too hard. Does she need a new assessment? I'd request a reevaluation in writing. Have they done a functional behavior assessment? If.not its time to request this in writing too. Just saying "do it or else" is against sp ed rules. An assessment to identify the function of her behaviors must be done and then a positive behavior plan must be written based on developing skills with specific teaching and rewards for steps toward achieving the appropriate behaviors. That is a federal mandate for everyone on an iep. Search functional behavior assessment and positive behavior intervention plan here, on writeslaw and in a general search on the internet. This is why you need an advocate. Hang in there. Hope gdg's dad doesn't get too inappropriate. [/QUOTE]
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