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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 531923"><p>I just had the thought that difficult child 1, when he was younger, would say things like he was going to kill himself. Maybe I could have difficult child 1 remember those times and why he would say those things to us. Then maybe he could put the dots together and realize that x is saying these things not because he is really going to die but for the same reasons difficult child 1 would say them to us. (He was mad at us.) That line of reasoning could really backfire though if difficult child 1 hasn't processed the why of his suicide threats from years ago. It is also a very fine line though and I'm not comfortable with it. One slip up and difficult child 1 would go to x with "mom says you tried to scare me because you were mad". Even if it were true I'd get in trouble with the court for pointing it out to difficult child 1. I might have to leave this one to the therapist.</p><p></p><p>Buddy, its the joint therapist that has the appointment with him. This will come up in therapy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 531923"] I just had the thought that difficult child 1, when he was younger, would say things like he was going to kill himself. Maybe I could have difficult child 1 remember those times and why he would say those things to us. Then maybe he could put the dots together and realize that x is saying these things not because he is really going to die but for the same reasons difficult child 1 would say them to us. (He was mad at us.) That line of reasoning could really backfire though if difficult child 1 hasn't processed the why of his suicide threats from years ago. It is also a very fine line though and I'm not comfortable with it. One slip up and difficult child 1 would go to x with "mom says you tried to scare me because you were mad". Even if it were true I'd get in trouble with the court for pointing it out to difficult child 1. I might have to leave this one to the therapist. Buddy, its the joint therapist that has the appointment with him. This will come up in therapy. [/QUOTE]
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