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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 223587" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>OH boy things just get worse and worse. It seems that when I hung up on difficult child 1 when she called last week and told me that I couldn't see my grandson difficult child called my easy child 1. easy child 1 was on her way to a funeral and insead of saying she couldn't talk let difficult child 1 start. Well things deteriorated and easy child 1 just told me that difficult child 1 has cut her off from the baby also. difficult child did this because easy child 1 knew that I was planning on sending the shower thank yous and that makes her guilty in difficult child 1's eyes even though easy child 1 told me she didn't think it was a good idea. Evedently difficult child 1 got easy child 1 so upset she hung up and then difficult child called back and left message on the answering machine. It was not nice so easy child picked it up hung up and put it on do not disturb so the children would not hear it. easy child 1 was still shaking an half hour later when her husband came home. </p><p></p><p>easy child 1 says they have been comunicating by e-mail but that they have not reconciled because difficult child 1 wants an apology not an explaination and easy child 1 doesn't feel that she wants to apologise or grovel when she is not guilty of anything. easy child 1 is not she certain that she even wants difficult child 1 in her life anymore. easy child 1 says it is time that difficult child 1 is made accountable and aware of how toxic and ungrateful she is. I told her that difficult child 1 is a diagnosed narcissist and that prevents her from seeing herself as she really is. easy child would not listen to anything I had to say. I tried to tell her what a good person she was and that she is not guilty of doing anything wrong and that she needs to find a way of dealing with difficult child 1 without givig up a piece of herself. Evidently while she was talking to me she got another e-mail from difficult child 1 saying that she was still waiting for an apology and some other things I was not made privy to. easy child 1 broke into tears said she couldn't talk about it and hug up on me. I feel horrid I e-mailed easy child and told her that I would accomodate her and serve both a brunch and a dinner so she and her sister didn't have to be here at the same time. _RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 223587, member: 2315"] OH boy things just get worse and worse. It seems that when I hung up on difficult child 1 when she called last week and told me that I couldn't see my grandson difficult child called my easy child 1. easy child 1 was on her way to a funeral and insead of saying she couldn't talk let difficult child 1 start. Well things deteriorated and easy child 1 just told me that difficult child 1 has cut her off from the baby also. difficult child did this because easy child 1 knew that I was planning on sending the shower thank yous and that makes her guilty in difficult child 1's eyes even though easy child 1 told me she didn't think it was a good idea. Evedently difficult child 1 got easy child 1 so upset she hung up and then difficult child called back and left message on the answering machine. It was not nice so easy child picked it up hung up and put it on do not disturb so the children would not hear it. easy child 1 was still shaking an half hour later when her husband came home. easy child 1 says they have been comunicating by e-mail but that they have not reconciled because difficult child 1 wants an apology not an explaination and easy child 1 doesn't feel that she wants to apologise or grovel when she is not guilty of anything. easy child 1 is not she certain that she even wants difficult child 1 in her life anymore. easy child 1 says it is time that difficult child 1 is made accountable and aware of how toxic and ungrateful she is. I told her that difficult child 1 is a diagnosed narcissist and that prevents her from seeing herself as she really is. easy child would not listen to anything I had to say. I tried to tell her what a good person she was and that she is not guilty of doing anything wrong and that she needs to find a way of dealing with difficult child 1 without givig up a piece of herself. Evidently while she was talking to me she got another e-mail from difficult child 1 saying that she was still waiting for an apology and some other things I was not made privy to. easy child 1 broke into tears said she couldn't talk about it and hug up on me. I feel horrid I e-mailed easy child and told her that I would accomodate her and serve both a brunch and a dinner so she and her sister didn't have to be here at the same time. _RM [/QUOTE]
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