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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 224097" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I called easy child! today and asked her if she wanted to spen the day doing something fun. She agreed and we went antiquing looking for a mantle for her house and we had lunch out.</p><p>We had fun and yes we found a maybe that her husband is going to check out on Saturday. </p><p></p><p>She told me that she employed her yoga training in her dillema with difficult child 1 and that she sent her an e-mail ant gave difficult child what she was looking for in a way that easy child 1 was comfortable with. </p><p></p><p>When I got home I had a very nice message on the machine from difficult child 1 thanking me for the flowers and asking that I call her back. I was a bit hesitant but Iher tone was pleasant and she seemed upbeat so I did. </p><p></p><p>Well like Katya said it would be if I stepped back, the ban was short lived. I haven't talked to her nor have I called for a week. Today difficult child 1 acted like nothing had ever happened and chatted plesantly for about a half hour. No mention of her sister no mention of anything unplesant no complaining. That is the usual MO. I didn't ask her if she was comming I just talked as if she was. Then at the end of the conversation I told her to give my grandson a sqeeze for me and she said "of course" Then she did just as many others predicted and asked if I thought I would be well enough to BABYSIT ON MONDAY (I have been sick for about a month but am much better now).</p><p>I told her I didn't have anything on my calendar but I needed to check with husband.</p><p></p><p>So, as I usually suggest to others, I will grab my joy when I can and I will cuddle that new grandbaby Monday night, (I had nothing planned anyway). I will have my Christmas Eve dinner here with all my children and then have New Year's with my friends in DE. For now there will be peace in my home. Such a roller coaster. Never a dull moment around here. Such is life with a difficult child and I have 3! </p><p></p><p>I thank all my CD family for you never ending support and good advice. It is very much appreciated. I will take all the advice given here and apply it to future situations as needed. Narcissists do not change easily if at all so teaching lessons isn't in the grand scheme of my relationship with this daughter. I will give nothing of myself that I am not willing to give and you all help me figure out what I am willing to give. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 224097, member: 2315"] I called easy child! today and asked her if she wanted to spen the day doing something fun. She agreed and we went antiquing looking for a mantle for her house and we had lunch out. We had fun and yes we found a maybe that her husband is going to check out on Saturday. She told me that she employed her yoga training in her dillema with difficult child 1 and that she sent her an e-mail ant gave difficult child what she was looking for in a way that easy child 1 was comfortable with. When I got home I had a very nice message on the machine from difficult child 1 thanking me for the flowers and asking that I call her back. I was a bit hesitant but Iher tone was pleasant and she seemed upbeat so I did. Well like Katya said it would be if I stepped back, the ban was short lived. I haven't talked to her nor have I called for a week. Today difficult child 1 acted like nothing had ever happened and chatted plesantly for about a half hour. No mention of her sister no mention of anything unplesant no complaining. That is the usual MO. I didn't ask her if she was comming I just talked as if she was. Then at the end of the conversation I told her to give my grandson a sqeeze for me and she said "of course" Then she did just as many others predicted and asked if I thought I would be well enough to BABYSIT ON MONDAY (I have been sick for about a month but am much better now). I told her I didn't have anything on my calendar but I needed to check with husband. So, as I usually suggest to others, I will grab my joy when I can and I will cuddle that new grandbaby Monday night, (I had nothing planned anyway). I will have my Christmas Eve dinner here with all my children and then have New Year's with my friends in DE. For now there will be peace in my home. Such a roller coaster. Never a dull moment around here. Such is life with a difficult child and I have 3! I thank all my CD family for you never ending support and good advice. It is very much appreciated. I will take all the advice given here and apply it to future situations as needed. Narcissists do not change easily if at all so teaching lessons isn't in the grand scheme of my relationship with this daughter. I will give nothing of myself that I am not willing to give and you all help me figure out what I am willing to give. -RM [/QUOTE]
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