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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 557991" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Hi. Welcome. I'm sorry this is not turning out as promised. I think the others have offered excellent ideas. I wanted to comment on the behaviors you are seeing and encourage you to not take them so personally. My son would do the same as youre describing and it is how it's always been. He can't keep from interrupting often. It's triggered by hearing any voice ...he has to talk. He does not fully understand other's facial expressions nor does he use them correctly. He does have normal jealous feelings and try to get what he wants like most kids but will usually behave in extremes and will appear to be provoking constantly. So, not saying it's ok but may go way beyond issues regarding you and the family situation and help for that takes place on many different levels! </p><p>I think the respite idea is good but I'd visit them in operation and ask how they handle what will appear as disrespectful behavior. There are facilities that don't fully understand and may use isolation or restraint inappropriately and you could end up with a child with more issues than before. </p><p>BUT, if it is a good place I for one can tell you that even a few hours here and there ends up reducing overall stress, leaving my son much happier (he loves going with other people now ) and so our time together is improved tremendously! When we have less than three days where he goes with Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers (independent living skills ) our weeks have far more issues.</p><p>You have lots to think of. by the way, I'm thinking the older one is old enough to stay in your life if you leave. He would not want to be the reason you stayed there miserably. I hope your so and.you can work things out and both boys lives can be enriched and encouraged. But no fault on you if it's too much. No one could know how hard this really is and how differently you have to parent many difficult child kiddos.</p><p>And.hope. hope you dont take offense, just because it can touch a little nerve (I'm sure you didn't mean to though ) many of us have chosen or had to make a choice to be career stay at home moms and it, for me, is a far more sophisticated a job, requiring much more skill than my out of home job which required national certification and a master's degree. Nothing mousy about being a stay at home mom for sure. It's a 24/7 job. I understand your point though. It is not what you planned for yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 557991, member: 12886"] Hi. Welcome. I'm sorry this is not turning out as promised. I think the others have offered excellent ideas. I wanted to comment on the behaviors you are seeing and encourage you to not take them so personally. My son would do the same as youre describing and it is how it's always been. He can't keep from interrupting often. It's triggered by hearing any voice ...he has to talk. He does not fully understand other's facial expressions nor does he use them correctly. He does have normal jealous feelings and try to get what he wants like most kids but will usually behave in extremes and will appear to be provoking constantly. So, not saying it's ok but may go way beyond issues regarding you and the family situation and help for that takes place on many different levels! I think the respite idea is good but I'd visit them in operation and ask how they handle what will appear as disrespectful behavior. There are facilities that don't fully understand and may use isolation or restraint inappropriately and you could end up with a child with more issues than before. BUT, if it is a good place I for one can tell you that even a few hours here and there ends up reducing overall stress, leaving my son much happier (he loves going with other people now ) and so our time together is improved tremendously! When we have less than three days where he goes with Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers (independent living skills ) our weeks have far more issues. You have lots to think of. by the way, I'm thinking the older one is old enough to stay in your life if you leave. He would not want to be the reason you stayed there miserably. I hope your so and.you can work things out and both boys lives can be enriched and encouraged. But no fault on you if it's too much. No one could know how hard this really is and how differently you have to parent many difficult child kiddos. And.hope. hope you dont take offense, just because it can touch a little nerve (I'm sure you didn't mean to though ) many of us have chosen or had to make a choice to be career stay at home moms and it, for me, is a far more sophisticated a job, requiring much more skill than my out of home job which required national certification and a master's degree. Nothing mousy about being a stay at home mom for sure. It's a 24/7 job. I understand your point though. It is not what you planned for yourself. [/QUOTE]
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