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<blockquote data-quote="youngfool" data-source="post: 684303" data-attributes="member: 20219"><p>Update yesterday Difficult Child informed me his girlfriend broke up with him she was overseas and their relationship was Skype don't know how he hoodwinked her for so long but she finally saw thru him he was planning on her sending money she had been enabling him for a long time sending money doing things for him putting up with his rants so I ask about his license status and he informed me that he is taking care of it I have been waiting for that so I can transfer a car into his name I know it sounds like I'm enabling him but that car is more for me and my wife's sanity anyway he sees the writing on the wall that he has one foot out the door so while I was at work he spoke to my wife about how sorry he was that we can all live together blah blah more manipulation like I said he's good but I'm not going for it when I got home I informed him that the 15 of mouth was last day he was not happy he started to try and engage me into the usual back and forth I inf him that I have changed and disrespect I was no longer going to accept in my home or life this was not a negoation he can leave walking taking a bus a ride but leaving he was I told I have changed to that he said you look and sound the same so I said really ok conversation is over walked back inside and Camly started to do my stuff no more talking a few minutes later he quietly went to his room and no drama as usually happens I am going to stick to my time line it's been said if I back out now all I have gained will be lost he will have a car and a job and he's 24 he will survive I know he will not talk to me for a long time maybe never but for my sanity marriage health this has to happen I'm so anxious and hope this all works out in the long run I know that if things stay the same he will never change I'm prepared for the long haul instead of a short term fix that will revert to same ole stuff you have all been an inspiration to me please keep me in mind it's going to be a long 8 days anyway here we go thanks for your support and advice</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="youngfool, post: 684303, member: 20219"] Update yesterday Difficult Child informed me his girlfriend broke up with him she was overseas and their relationship was Skype don't know how he hoodwinked her for so long but she finally saw thru him he was planning on her sending money she had been enabling him for a long time sending money doing things for him putting up with his rants so I ask about his license status and he informed me that he is taking care of it I have been waiting for that so I can transfer a car into his name I know it sounds like I'm enabling him but that car is more for me and my wife's sanity anyway he sees the writing on the wall that he has one foot out the door so while I was at work he spoke to my wife about how sorry he was that we can all live together blah blah more manipulation like I said he's good but I'm not going for it when I got home I informed him that the 15 of mouth was last day he was not happy he started to try and engage me into the usual back and forth I inf him that I have changed and disrespect I was no longer going to accept in my home or life this was not a negoation he can leave walking taking a bus a ride but leaving he was I told I have changed to that he said you look and sound the same so I said really ok conversation is over walked back inside and Camly started to do my stuff no more talking a few minutes later he quietly went to his room and no drama as usually happens I am going to stick to my time line it's been said if I back out now all I have gained will be lost he will have a car and a job and he's 24 he will survive I know he will not talk to me for a long time maybe never but for my sanity marriage health this has to happen I'm so anxious and hope this all works out in the long run I know that if things stay the same he will never change I'm prepared for the long haul instead of a short term fix that will revert to same ole stuff you have all been an inspiration to me please keep me in mind it's going to be a long 8 days anyway here we go thanks for your support and advice [/QUOTE]
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