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Feeling like one big screw up
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 578743" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Sweetheart - you can't compare yourself to your Mom! She didn't have the same situation you do. And I've heard a few things from my own Mom that made me feel bad about myself, but... At the end of the day, my Mom had one NT kid and I have 3, 2 of whom came with LOADED baggage. I finally pointed out to her that her criticism wasn't helping, all it was doing was hurting my feelings and she had NO IDEA. She's better (not perfect) now. You're going to have ups and downs at work... Didn't you have a coworker who was trying to undermine you?</p><p></p><p>Also, when things are going wrong, I get super hyper sensitive about even <em>perceived</em> criticism... <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /> I feel for you. You are entitled to a pity party - but don't let it go on too long!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 578743, member: 6705"] Sweetheart - you can't compare yourself to your Mom! She didn't have the same situation you do. And I've heard a few things from my own Mom that made me feel bad about myself, but... At the end of the day, my Mom had one NT kid and I have 3, 2 of whom came with LOADED baggage. I finally pointed out to her that her criticism wasn't helping, all it was doing was hurting my feelings and she had NO IDEA. She's better (not perfect) now. You're going to have ups and downs at work... Didn't you have a coworker who was trying to undermine you? Also, when things are going wrong, I get super hyper sensitive about even [I]perceived[/I] criticism... :hugs: I feel for you. You are entitled to a pity party - but don't let it go on too long! [/QUOTE]
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