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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 476520" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>I can understand your feelings, and your trepidation at having him come out and be violent again. It's perfectly understandable. Let us hope very much that things <strong>will </strong>return to normal. To play devil's advocate, and I kind of don't want to ask this, but what is your plan if he does become violent again? I think you have to think this through, however very hard it is. Fingers crossed it will not come to that, but it may reduce the anxiety and fear if you actually think through the eventuality that something has changed with him. </p><p>Not that I am one to speak... my son is like two different kids, basically - and I do really see the temptation sometimes to play down the unpleasant, out of control, concerning one (because I just want it to go away or not to exist at all). Taking it seriously is something I have to steel myself to do.</p><p>Hugs and warmest thoughts for today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 476520, member: 11227"] I can understand your feelings, and your trepidation at having him come out and be violent again. It's perfectly understandable. Let us hope very much that things [B]will [/B]return to normal. To play devil's advocate, and I kind of don't want to ask this, but what is your plan if he does become violent again? I think you have to think this through, however very hard it is. Fingers crossed it will not come to that, but it may reduce the anxiety and fear if you actually think through the eventuality that something has changed with him. Not that I am one to speak... my son is like two different kids, basically - and I do really see the temptation sometimes to play down the unpleasant, out of control, concerning one (because I just want it to go away or not to exist at all). Taking it seriously is something I have to steel myself to do. Hugs and warmest thoughts for today. [/QUOTE]
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