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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663574" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Feeling, I agree with the others. I think it is brilliant idea to leave $50 in his account.</p><p></p><p>Feeling, from an earlier post I thought we had come to the conclusion that he was seeking some help in a limited way.</p><p></p><p>I worked with Paranoid Schizophrenic men. They do seek out help from people they are not afraid of.</p><p>The goal for us is to not die from grief or collapse and lose our will.</p><p></p><p>I believe we are in horribly impossible situations because we would readily die if we knew it would transform our sons into functioning people. That willingness of ours to self-destruct to help them is always a danger zone. For our sons.</p><p></p><p>If you did not fear your son could hurt or kill you or your other child, and end up in worse danger you would bring him back to the house. So the $50 is your price. What you need to not cave.</p><p></p><p>In your house your son will always be more vulnerable rather than less. When you die who will care for him? Your children? Outside he will make some life or another. He already is.</p><p></p><p>You have to do enough, so that you do not cave and bring him back to the house. Looked at that way the $50 is like a highway toll nothing more, so that the vehicle keeps going. Except you are the vehicle. You are paying the $50 so that you keep going. That is your price.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663574, member: 18958"] Feeling, I agree with the others. I think it is brilliant idea to leave $50 in his account. Feeling, from an earlier post I thought we had come to the conclusion that he was seeking some help in a limited way. I worked with Paranoid Schizophrenic men. They do seek out help from people they are not afraid of. The goal for us is to not die from grief or collapse and lose our will. I believe we are in horribly impossible situations because we would readily die if we knew it would transform our sons into functioning people. That willingness of ours to self-destruct to help them is always a danger zone. For our sons. If you did not fear your son could hurt or kill you or your other child, and end up in worse danger you would bring him back to the house. So the $50 is your price. What you need to not cave. In your house your son will always be more vulnerable rather than less. When you die who will care for him? Your children? Outside he will make some life or another. He already is. You have to do enough, so that you do not cave and bring him back to the house. Looked at that way the $50 is like a highway toll nothing more, so that the vehicle keeps going. Except you are the vehicle. You are paying the $50 so that you keep going. That is your price. [/QUOTE]
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