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Fell off the wagon and had a cig...its a glass half empty day
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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 429801" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>Confuzzled - a big old hug to you, and congrats on going 3 mos with-out a cig. A lapse is a lapse - hopefully just a temporary setback. by the way, I totally understand the urge. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> Of course, I have yet to quit so I just give in.</p><p></p><p>If services are available, go for it. I so totally get where you're at - that one more phone call, one more resource that turns into yet another brick wall. Those "looks" professionals give you when you say you're doing it alone... like, what? There's a choice? </p><p></p><p>I'm stuck right now in a rut where my prevailing thought is that it is *never* going to get better, and it's never going to end. And realistically, it's not, but... somehow I've got to figure out how to get my head back in a better space. I love Boo and absolutely do not resent the care he requires, but... good gravy, it sure would be nice to have a break just once every couple of decades.</p><p></p><p>So yep, it sure does blow... but you'll get up tomorrow and do it again and hopefully soon you'll find your equilibrium again. by the way - I understand how unnatural it feels to admit how rough things can feel... I think you're incredibly honest to be able to put it out there. </p><p></p><p>Hugs to you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 429801, member: 8"] Confuzzled - a big old hug to you, and congrats on going 3 mos with-out a cig. A lapse is a lapse - hopefully just a temporary setback. by the way, I totally understand the urge. :winking: Of course, I have yet to quit so I just give in. If services are available, go for it. I so totally get where you're at - that one more phone call, one more resource that turns into yet another brick wall. Those "looks" professionals give you when you say you're doing it alone... like, what? There's a choice? I'm stuck right now in a rut where my prevailing thought is that it is *never* going to get better, and it's never going to end. And realistically, it's not, but... somehow I've got to figure out how to get my head back in a better space. I love Boo and absolutely do not resent the care he requires, but... good gravy, it sure would be nice to have a break just once every couple of decades. So yep, it sure does blow... but you'll get up tomorrow and do it again and hopefully soon you'll find your equilibrium again. by the way - I understand how unnatural it feels to admit how rough things can feel... I think you're incredibly honest to be able to put it out there. Hugs to you! [/QUOTE]
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