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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 278020" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Jena, I don't think the kids need to learn to live with this. It is like a bully from school. You teach your kids to stay away from trouble and things that will anger them. Some people may enjoy a spirit in the house but that atmosphere is not for everyone and it is unfair to make a kid learn to live with something so uncommon as this. </p><p> </p><p>If you don't like it, then by all means move away from it. No need to learn to live with it. That would be a total daily pain - as if you don't have other daily "life" issues to help the kids through. </p><p> </p><p>I know YOU can deal with this but making your kids come to peace will be impossible - you don't have time for that. Let someone who has the time and energy to deal with it live there. You have better things (and higher priorities) to deal with than how your kids are struggling with this unknown. </p><p> </p><p>If you are able to move and do make that decision, you will be sending the message that you do not have to put up with annoyances. If you are so unhappy with something, you work to get rid of it if possible. You do not always have to stand up and fight. You choose your battles and this is a low priority one in my book.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 278020, member: 5096"] Jena, I don't think the kids need to learn to live with this. It is like a bully from school. You teach your kids to stay away from trouble and things that will anger them. Some people may enjoy a spirit in the house but that atmosphere is not for everyone and it is unfair to make a kid learn to live with something so uncommon as this. If you don't like it, then by all means move away from it. No need to learn to live with it. That would be a total daily pain - as if you don't have other daily "life" issues to help the kids through. I know YOU can deal with this but making your kids come to peace will be impossible - you don't have time for that. Let someone who has the time and energy to deal with it live there. You have better things (and higher priorities) to deal with than how your kids are struggling with this unknown. If you are able to move and do make that decision, you will be sending the message that you do not have to put up with annoyances. If you are so unhappy with something, you work to get rid of it if possible. You do not always have to stand up and fight. You choose your battles and this is a low priority one in my book. [/QUOTE]
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