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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 243179" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid">I bought a book a few years ago for H and me called, "His Needs, Her Needs" I think the author is Steve Harley from </span></span></span><a href="http://www.Marriagebuilders.com" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid">www.Marriagebuilders.com</span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid"> and what I found most interesting is that what a person wants from his/her spouse are usually the very things he tries to impose on his/her partner. And they almost always are not the same things!! Most men have a very different idea of what their wife wants and vice versa. You know when you're venting about things and you don't necessarily need a 'fix it' or response at all, but your H will come up with 60 second answers to fix it all, or make it all better. Most of the wives out there aren't looking for advice from their H's - they just want to be heard. So Dr. Harley has this little test thing he gives his 'patients' wherein they answer about 100 questions about themselves, emotional intimacy, etc. It's very interesting. My H would have nothing to do with it. I also suggested Retrovaille, but he poo-poo'ed that also.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid">That poor H, trying to do all the things right and getting them all wrong! I'm glad it had a happy ending anyway.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 243179, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid]I bought a book a few years ago for H and me called, "His Needs, Her Needs" I think the author is Steve Harley from [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][URL="http://www.Marriagebuilders.com"][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid]www.Marriagebuilders.com[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/URL][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid] and what I found most interesting is that what a person wants from his/her spouse are usually the very things he tries to impose on his/her partner. And they almost always are not the same things!! Most men have a very different idea of what their wife wants and vice versa. You know when you're venting about things and you don't necessarily need a 'fix it' or response at all, but your H will come up with 60 second answers to fix it all, or make it all better. Most of the wives out there aren't looking for advice from their H's - they just want to be heard. So Dr. Harley has this little test thing he gives his 'patients' wherein they answer about 100 questions about themselves, emotional intimacy, etc. It's very interesting. My H would have nothing to do with it. I also suggested Retrovaille, but he poo-poo'ed that also.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid]That poor H, trying to do all the things right and getting them all wrong! I'm glad it had a happy ending anyway.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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