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Ok, although my son and daughter has been fighting verbally and physically the last week or so,he was a little better with his words,hitting us (yup he started again) and had a few great mornings in a row! For about two weeks I have taken his favorite thing away for saying" I hate you" and" hitting us"-"outside time". The last two mornings before school was such a delight, we laughed and laughed, he was in a great mood! Then each day he came home with attitude! For example we were in the kitchen after school,he was in the pathway to the exit the kitchen,we said "excuse me please", he stood there, we called his name next to him in a regular tone voice and repeated ourselves.Nothing.So I was the first one to go between him and the refrigerator,said excuse me sweety- nicely,and accidentally very,very slightly,a light "bump" bumped into him. He turned around and just hit me!He says we do it on purpose and we are liers! He keeps doing that,also if we tell him not to pound,throw things at us or on anything. Last week he violently handed me a sharp scissors when I told him he couldn't use that one, he needed his "special ones made just for him" (age safe) and then he ran in the kitchen,my dad tried to get him to hand them over,same thing and waved them and my daughter! So far last week and this week good at school! I just don't know what to do.
Here's another concern, since my ex is remarried- can they get custody of him because it would be better for him and or my daughter to be with their father and umm step "mother".(two parents-stability) Will the courts do that to them/me? Their dad said less then a year before he married her, that he and I should get married ,he should be there daily and that would help our son! I'm so so scared.I also need a job still, I quit looking for a while. I am single still, no partying of any type unless my kids were there with me and no alcohol /drugs,problems ever happened. (Birthday parties only).Live at home with dad still,in school, clean home,kids generally healthy apart from colds,basics. Oh and my sons run in at the E.R on New Years Eve because he was playing with a plastic modeling stick from Crayola,wouldn't put it away like I asked and scratched his eye.(He's fine)
Here's another concern, since my ex is remarried- can they get custody of him because it would be better for him and or my daughter to be with their father and umm step "mother".(two parents-stability) Will the courts do that to them/me? Their dad said less then a year before he married her, that he and I should get married ,he should be there daily and that would help our son! I'm so so scared.I also need a job still, I quit looking for a while. I am single still, no partying of any type unless my kids were there with me and no alcohol /drugs,problems ever happened. (Birthday parties only).Live at home with dad still,in school, clean home,kids generally healthy apart from colds,basics. Oh and my sons run in at the E.R on New Years Eve because he was playing with a plastic modeling stick from Crayola,wouldn't put it away like I asked and scratched his eye.(He's fine)