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Forgiving others vs forgiving yourself
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 409775" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hey im sorry was in my own little miserable jen world. didn't see your last line that it was matt and one other person who passed. if you have made your peace with Matt than leave it alone. seriously. as far as the other person go graveside if you have to, or write a letter and burn it. </p><p> </p><p>i've had to forgive myself also for some not so great choices in my life. i did because i had to as you have to in order to proceed and stop chosing men, situations in my life that would purposely beat myself up. (not thinking we deserve more), also my childhood abuse left me feeling dirty, and basically non lovable by anyone with quality and integrity. a whole other can of worms lol.</p><p> </p><p>listen you'll get there. do a gratitude journal each day not of life yet of you. what you are grateful for in yourself. i think you'll see the list is long. hang in there. sorry about not reading the last line. i'm in a pissy mood and yes im diong some emotional eating right now "fries from bk" <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 409775, member: 4514"] hey im sorry was in my own little miserable jen world. didn't see your last line that it was matt and one other person who passed. if you have made your peace with Matt than leave it alone. seriously. as far as the other person go graveside if you have to, or write a letter and burn it. i've had to forgive myself also for some not so great choices in my life. i did because i had to as you have to in order to proceed and stop chosing men, situations in my life that would purposely beat myself up. (not thinking we deserve more), also my childhood abuse left me feeling dirty, and basically non lovable by anyone with quality and integrity. a whole other can of worms lol. listen you'll get there. do a gratitude journal each day not of life yet of you. what you are grateful for in yourself. i think you'll see the list is long. hang in there. sorry about not reading the last line. i'm in a pissy mood and yes im diong some emotional eating right now "fries from bk" :) [/QUOTE]
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