Just got a call from Rev. He's on his way to pick up Fred from school. He's suspended for hitting a kid on the bus and "dragging him out of his seat." He's getting worse. Yesterday morning we had a full-out altercation (me, unfortunately, losing it and screaming at him) over his school uniform. He deliberately puts on the wrong one, then waits until 30 seconds til he has to leave for the bus stop, hoping that we'll just let it go. But I snapped, both at the deviousness of it and at his refusal to do anything I say, ever. I made him change, yelling the whole time. He started crying and I felt like a jerk. He missed the bus, of course, and Rev had to drive him to school. I'm sure that fed into his aggression this morning. Still trying to set up a psychiatric appointment. I hope we can get a handle on this before he gets prosecuted for bulllying and/or we get sued. This weekend is going to suck.