Well it seems that things maybe improving for us. difficult child 2 went to her equine therapist and loved it, she is excited about working with the horses and has been working very hard at home to control her emotions (practice for the horse)after all if you are not in control of your emotions he backs away and you cant pet him! I was intouch with the school district trying to get her back into public school, at first i was told that she couldnt come back that they were suggesting Residential Treatment Center (RTC), when i told them that none in the state would take her either because she is to violent,young or they are full i was told to look out of state. I reminded them that difficult child 2 does have an iep thru the homeschooling program and does have a 504 and also that when they told me homeschool her or place her in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) they could not leaglly do that and i would be intouch with a lawyer and the news they asked if i could attend a new iep meeting to discuss her going back to public school. difficult child 1 i no longer in Department of Juvenile Justice. they moved him to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) here in town. im not sure why and we still have court to attend, but him being there is better than jail. At least there he will have to see a therapist and will get to work on his other behaviors while awaiting court.