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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 633026" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>He sure sounds like a difficult child to me. Just because he's not on drugs and works doesn't make him a nice person or a good son. 36 would be a easy child if just having a job meant he's a easy child. 36 is very smart, was in gifted classes all through school, and makes a lot of money. He never talks to me quite as badly as your middle son talked to you. If he did, he would not be able to talk to me at all because I have boundaries about what he can and can't say to me. For all the abuse he has heaped on me when he is under stress, which makes him plain mean, he does tell me I only made two mistakes in bringing him up. We would have no relationship at all if he said those hurtful things to me. If my ex talked to me the way your husband did, and sided with this abusive behavior, I would never talk to ex either and I'm not even married to ex anymore...lol.</p><p></p><p>It really isn't funny though. You have a lot of garbage going on and I hope you keep taking care of yourself and distance yourself emotionally from the nonsense you are getting from your middle son and your husband. If it were me (and I know it's not)I would probably be trying to figure out a way to get them both out or leave myself. I don't know if I was at that place yet at your age though. I really took my time before I realized I didn't need to be abused. I was more into my 50's, maybe 52 or 53 when it hit me. </p><p></p><p>Keep being good to yourself. Hang around with your true loved ones who realize the good person you are. Nobody has a right to abuse you, no matter who that person is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 633026, member: 1550"] He sure sounds like a difficult child to me. Just because he's not on drugs and works doesn't make him a nice person or a good son. 36 would be a easy child if just having a job meant he's a easy child. 36 is very smart, was in gifted classes all through school, and makes a lot of money. He never talks to me quite as badly as your middle son talked to you. If he did, he would not be able to talk to me at all because I have boundaries about what he can and can't say to me. For all the abuse he has heaped on me when he is under stress, which makes him plain mean, he does tell me I only made two mistakes in bringing him up. We would have no relationship at all if he said those hurtful things to me. If my ex talked to me the way your husband did, and sided with this abusive behavior, I would never talk to ex either and I'm not even married to ex anymore...lol. It really isn't funny though. You have a lot of garbage going on and I hope you keep taking care of yourself and distance yourself emotionally from the nonsense you are getting from your middle son and your husband. If it were me (and I know it's not)I would probably be trying to figure out a way to get them both out or leave myself. I don't know if I was at that place yet at your age though. I really took my time before I realized I didn't need to be abused. I was more into my 50's, maybe 52 or 53 when it hit me. Keep being good to yourself. Hang around with your true loved ones who realize the good person you are. Nobody has a right to abuse you, no matter who that person is. [/QUOTE]
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