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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 404753" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Steely, as you know I just went through this with my Dad two months ago. I wish I had been notified when they called hospice in but my step-mom didnt want to let me come up until my dad was really too far gone for me to have much meaningful time with him. I am a tad bit upset that I was mislead about how long he actually knew about the cancer as opposed to what I was told but oh well. </p><p></p><p>Make sure you make all your peace with your Dad. It will do you good to have a clear mind and heart. I feel that my dad understood me even if he couldnt really talk back to me. I told him everything I ever wanted to say to him. How much I loved him. All that stuff. </p><p></p><p>Keyana and I still go out at night and look up at the stars and talk to GrandPapa. She is my buddy in that. I dont know how much she really understands because she talks about sending an airplane to go get him in one breathe and then asks if her Papa (Tony) and I are gonna go be with Grandpapa one day. I tell her one day but not until she goes to college, gets married and has kids of her own. Since she is adamant that she is never getting married...well...then I dont have to worry about going to heaven...lmao. You know all boys are yucky at her age...well all boys except Justin Bieber!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 404753, member: 1514"] Steely, as you know I just went through this with my Dad two months ago. I wish I had been notified when they called hospice in but my step-mom didnt want to let me come up until my dad was really too far gone for me to have much meaningful time with him. I am a tad bit upset that I was mislead about how long he actually knew about the cancer as opposed to what I was told but oh well. Make sure you make all your peace with your Dad. It will do you good to have a clear mind and heart. I feel that my dad understood me even if he couldnt really talk back to me. I told him everything I ever wanted to say to him. How much I loved him. All that stuff. Keyana and I still go out at night and look up at the stars and talk to GrandPapa. She is my buddy in that. I dont know how much she really understands because she talks about sending an airplane to go get him in one breathe and then asks if her Papa (Tony) and I are gonna go be with Grandpapa one day. I tell her one day but not until she goes to college, gets married and has kids of her own. Since she is adamant that she is never getting married...well...then I dont have to worry about going to heaven...lmao. You know all boys are yucky at her age...well all boys except Justin Bieber! [/QUOTE]
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