Our issues have been going on for almost 5 years but, I'll stick to the problem at hand. My almost 17 y.o. daughter who is impulsive has began to smoke pot more often. 3 x in 2 months. But, she does this when she sneaks out at 3 a.m. She did this two nights ago. She came home at 730 a.m. yesterday and wanted to go straight to bed, as usual. Well, I made her put the dishes in the D.W. and go with my mom to do a couple of errands. They got home at 1230 pm and she went to bed. It is now 455 pm and she only comes out to go to the restroom or eat. She knows she will have to do chores if she comes out and possibly hear more about our disappointment and she knows she lost her phone and other privileges so she feels she has nothing to lose by staying in there. How do I get her out or do I just wait? I hope I did this right. And do I start another thread about all that we are going through? Thanks in advance.