DDD
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I'm "half" in my cups and stressed out almost to the max. I NEED to get easy child/difficult child (aka difficult child#1) into a house of his own. Really, guys, this is a whine. I am pooped. I am not ignorant. He has thirty grand to put down on a house and a letter showing he will receive over a grand a month in disability. We have found a house just under $55,000 that is in "almost" good repair and I'm having difficulty getting a mortgage committment.
Prepare for a WHINE. The blankin house last sold for $110,000. It is in forelosure and the asking price is $54,900...as is. He has a grand for the roof repairs. He probably has the cash for other required repairs BUT "they" are requiring three years proof of income to show he an pay the mortgage. WTH! Yea, I know I am "almost always" polite and nice but I am also a business woman who supported five people on real estate commisions. How does it make sense? The SS office shows he will be receiving over thirty grand in a lump sum and over a grand a month BUT...there is a question about whether he can or can not meet the monthly payments.!!! Eh Gads.
Bless your hearts if you have not dealt with the Gov't. I think either the world is nuts or I am too old. The Gov't puts in writing that he will receive over a grand a month. The Gov't is providing him back pay for the years he denied his disabiliity. NOW they want proof he has had this same income for the past three yeras. Heavens to Betsy. Somthing is messed up in this Catche 22. Whine. DDD
Prepare for a WHINE. The blankin house last sold for $110,000. It is in forelosure and the asking price is $54,900...as is. He has a grand for the roof repairs. He probably has the cash for other required repairs BUT "they" are requiring three years proof of income to show he an pay the mortgage. WTH! Yea, I know I am "almost always" polite and nice but I am also a business woman who supported five people on real estate commisions. How does it make sense? The SS office shows he will be receiving over thirty grand in a lump sum and over a grand a month BUT...there is a question about whether he can or can not meet the monthly payments.!!! Eh Gads.
Bless your hearts if you have not dealt with the Gov't. I think either the world is nuts or I am too old. The Gov't puts in writing that he will receive over a grand a month. The Gov't is providing him back pay for the years he denied his disabiliity. NOW they want proof he has had this same income for the past three yeras. Heavens to Betsy. Somthing is messed up in this Catche 22. Whine. DDD