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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 596395" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>Well, Witz...the loving the grandchildren thing? Is actually a revenge sort of thing. </p><p></p><p>Much as it seems like she does, L does not hold all the power, here. Life is life, and it does go on. Children become estranged from parents. Persons grow up, and search out their people. Or they get into researching family lines, and search out their people.</p><p></p><p>Or they just get curious, and search out their people.</p><p></p><p>It doesn't have to be money, then ~ though nothing says I love you like cold, hard cash someone socked away for you ON PURPOSE when you had been told whatever bad things L will tell them about why their grandmother is not in their lives.</p><p></p><p>You know how, when a mom is dying of a fatal illness, and she makes little presents for her children to open when they are nine, and again for when they are ten, and so on. The value there is that the children understand she would have been there, if she could have. That is what I am saying, about L's children. There will come a time when they will be curious about their own grandmother. </p><p></p><p>And you know you could, with skill, with subtlety and with malice aforethought, create seven kinds of Hell for L, if you want to.</p><p></p><p>Even if you are already gone, yourself.</p><p></p><p>I'm just sayin'.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 596395, member: 1721"] Well, Witz...the loving the grandchildren thing? Is actually a revenge sort of thing. Much as it seems like she does, L does not hold all the power, here. Life is life, and it does go on. Children become estranged from parents. Persons grow up, and search out their people. Or they get into researching family lines, and search out their people. Or they just get curious, and search out their people. It doesn't have to be money, then ~ though nothing says I love you like cold, hard cash someone socked away for you ON PURPOSE when you had been told whatever bad things L will tell them about why their grandmother is not in their lives. You know how, when a mom is dying of a fatal illness, and she makes little presents for her children to open when they are nine, and again for when they are ten, and so on. The value there is that the children understand she would have been there, if she could have. That is what I am saying, about L's children. There will come a time when they will be curious about their own grandmother. And you know you could, with skill, with subtlety and with malice aforethought, create seven kinds of Hell for L, if you want to. Even if you are already gone, yourself. I'm just sayin'. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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