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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 247094" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Yes. We have no one other than my parents (who have done their share AND gone above and beyond for us) that we could entrust our children to. I barely know husband's sister and her husband. They made is explicitly clear when Wiz was born (long before any problems appeared) that they did NOT want to be guardians - she only wanted 1 child and they had him. </p><p></p><p>I have a brother who would destroy my children if he had to raise them. In no way could I entrust my babies to my gfgbro. He may be technically sober, but he still rants and raves and ALL of my children distrust him.</p><p></p><p>That is IT for our siblings. We don't have friends who would take the kids. </p><p></p><p>husband's parents are older than mine, and they are not close to my kids. They are far closer to step-mother in law's kids and grandkids - by THEIR choice. I don't doubt they love my kids, but they are and have always been clear in their unwillingness to be guardians for them.</p><p></p><p>husband's mother is crazy. Flat out. She is good with her animals, but she hates me and only likes husband barely. She actually has told husband that he can't visit on Christmas, etc.. in the past. I can't imagine trusting her with them.</p><p></p><p>So we are just flat out of options. Never did have good ones.We have gone over and over it. Basically, whatever assets and insurance $$ will go into a trust for them and we will trust the court to choose guardians. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are in this position. It really stinks, doesn't it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 247094, member: 1233"] Yes. We have no one other than my parents (who have done their share AND gone above and beyond for us) that we could entrust our children to. I barely know husband's sister and her husband. They made is explicitly clear when Wiz was born (long before any problems appeared) that they did NOT want to be guardians - she only wanted 1 child and they had him. I have a brother who would destroy my children if he had to raise them. In no way could I entrust my babies to my gfgbro. He may be technically sober, but he still rants and raves and ALL of my children distrust him. That is IT for our siblings. We don't have friends who would take the kids. husband's parents are older than mine, and they are not close to my kids. They are far closer to step-mother in law's kids and grandkids - by THEIR choice. I don't doubt they love my kids, but they are and have always been clear in their unwillingness to be guardians for them. husband's mother is crazy. Flat out. She is good with her animals, but she hates me and only likes husband barely. She actually has told husband that he can't visit on Christmas, etc.. in the past. I can't imagine trusting her with them. So we are just flat out of options. Never did have good ones.We have gone over and over it. Basically, whatever assets and insurance $$ will go into a trust for them and we will trust the court to choose guardians. I am sorry you are in this position. It really stinks, doesn't it? [/QUOTE]
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