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Had son arrested 4x this year
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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 329270" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Well, you certainly have your hands full, that's for sure. Welcome to the forum. We are raising challenging *adults* (term used loosely -lol) and understand your distress.</p><p> </p><p>A couple of housekeeping things. I would suggest that you go to our FAQ/Board Help forum and read the posts there. One of the topics is how to do a profile signature. We need our members to have signatures so we can remember the stories and not get confused about who you are.</p><p> </p><p>You might want to read the two links in my signature about detachment. We have constant conversations about the necessity of detaching and how to do it. I expect that you will find this helpful. </p><p> </p><p>Read our old posts/ read our archives. I remember when I first found this site I read everything I could get my hands on because I was so relieved to see that there were others who knew what I was talking about.</p><p> </p><p>One thing for sure.....the violence has to stop now. If/when your son is released, if/when you see him again, neither one of you can touch each other. You will lose all credibility with his therapists, the courts, etc. if you strike back. If your son threatens you or lays a finger on you, call the police and let them handle it.</p><p> </p><p>His lawyer is lying if he says he's never heard of son/mother domestic violence. good grief- of course it happens.</p><p> </p><p>You have my sympathies and my welcome.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 329270, member: 29"] Well, you certainly have your hands full, that's for sure. Welcome to the forum. We are raising challenging *adults* (term used loosely -lol) and understand your distress. A couple of housekeeping things. I would suggest that you go to our FAQ/Board Help forum and read the posts there. One of the topics is how to do a profile signature. We need our members to have signatures so we can remember the stories and not get confused about who you are. You might want to read the two links in my signature about detachment. We have constant conversations about the necessity of detaching and how to do it. I expect that you will find this helpful. Read our old posts/ read our archives. I remember when I first found this site I read everything I could get my hands on because I was so relieved to see that there were others who knew what I was talking about. One thing for sure.....the violence has to stop now. If/when your son is released, if/when you see him again, neither one of you can touch each other. You will lose all credibility with his therapists, the courts, etc. if you strike back. If your son threatens you or lays a finger on you, call the police and let them handle it. His lawyer is lying if he says he's never heard of son/mother domestic violence. good grief- of course it happens. You have my sympathies and my welcome. Suz [/QUOTE]
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