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Had son arrested 4x this year
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 329669" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I, too, suspect she is in NY. We have had some other members here with that problem. That being said, if he was my kid and he had been arrested, I would make it very clear that he was not moving home and I don't care what they say. I'd tell them I was changing the locks and putting his stuff into storage. If they want to forcibly move him back into the house, so be it, but you're changing the locks the next time he leaves. He's far too out of control to make it at a group home or foster home, so I wouldn't worry about paying <em>that</em> bill for any length of time.</p><p></p><p>There's other NY'ers who will be able to pipe in here. But the reality of it for most of them, as I recall, was that the threat that you had to keep your child in your home or pay their living expenses was a lot of hot air when it came down to putting an unruly adult on the street.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 329669, member: 99"] I, too, suspect she is in NY. We have had some other members here with that problem. That being said, if he was my kid and he had been arrested, I would make it very clear that he was not moving home and I don't care what they say. I'd tell them I was changing the locks and putting his stuff into storage. If they want to forcibly move him back into the house, so be it, but you're changing the locks the next time he leaves. He's far too out of control to make it at a group home or foster home, so I wouldn't worry about paying [I]that[/I] bill for any length of time. There's other NY'ers who will be able to pipe in here. But the reality of it for most of them, as I recall, was that the threat that you had to keep your child in your home or pay their living expenses was a lot of hot air when it came down to putting an unruly adult on the street. [/QUOTE]
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