I found her with a quick web search. She is not doing so well but has found a board like this for mom's of murdered children. I couldn't read too much because it is so sad but they seem a lot like us. It looks like they still haven't had the trial for Timmy's murder yet -- she posted it looks like it will be end of 2010 for that. For those of us who pray, she could definitely use some prayers.
I heard back from Bette yesterday. This year has been very difficult, Timmy should have been 18 on Dec 31st. She does think of us often. The trial for Timmy's murderers won't begin until November.
I encourage those with contact info to get in touch with her, she could use our continued support.
Tell tpcmom that she and her family are in my ongoing thoughts. I'm glad to hear that it sounds like they've caught the perpetrators, but angered that it is taking so long for the cases to come to justice.