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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 664013" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Many of us are in this position. But where does it stop? There is always more one can do. The question is whether it is of benefit. The other thing is your welfare. The only person who can stop this is you. You are the only one to decide if you have done enough.</p><p></p><p>What do you deserve? What about your safety? What is your life worth? What can you really do if this is his choice? How many times are you going to Denver to try to save him? How many is enough? Two? Ten? A hundred?What do his words have to do with anything? Have his words in the past had meaning? Is there a way you can limit your contact? How is it helping you to be so tuned in to him? Where is your indication that your presence or help will benefit him in any way?</p><p></p><p>What are you doing for yourself to get through this? Al Anon? Therapy?</p><p>Does this really sound like he is in any way serious about anything? Especially after he had called the lady to drive him. Does this sound like somebody about to die? Take him at his word. He wanted to have fun. It appears he could care less who he makes suffer or who he puts out.</p><p></p><p>The changing must come from you. What can you really do to protect him, or to change him? When do you become worthy of being factored into the equation?</p><p></p><p>He or any other person may feel unloved. What control do you or I or anyone else have over the feelings of another person? Whose responsibility are his feelings?</p><p></p><p>What would demonstrate to him your love? When will you ever know it is enough? Could he not now if he chose to acknowledge he is loved?</p><p></p><p>Again, what about you? What about his responsibility to himself? Where is your responsibility to yourself?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 664013, member: 18958"] Many of us are in this position. But where does it stop? There is always more one can do. The question is whether it is of benefit. The other thing is your welfare. The only person who can stop this is you. You are the only one to decide if you have done enough. What do you deserve? What about your safety? What is your life worth? What can you really do if this is his choice? How many times are you going to Denver to try to save him? How many is enough? Two? Ten? A hundred?What do his words have to do with anything? Have his words in the past had meaning? Is there a way you can limit your contact? How is it helping you to be so tuned in to him? Where is your indication that your presence or help will benefit him in any way? What are you doing for yourself to get through this? Al Anon? Therapy? Does this really sound like he is in any way serious about anything? Especially after he had called the lady to drive him. Does this sound like somebody about to die? Take him at his word. He wanted to have fun. It appears he could care less who he makes suffer or who he puts out. The changing must come from you. What can you really do to protect him, or to change him? When do you become worthy of being factored into the equation? He or any other person may feel unloved. What control do you or I or anyone else have over the feelings of another person? Whose responsibility are his feelings? What would demonstrate to him your love? When will you ever know it is enough? Could he not now if he chose to acknowledge he is loved? Again, what about you? What about his responsibility to himself? Where is your responsibility to yourself? [/QUOTE]
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