I think team sports are out for difficult child. I'll sign difficult child up for golf this spring, but for now, I had been contemplating cub scouts for the boy activities. We've been to several meetings and difficult child has actually enjoyed being around other boys. He hasn't wanted to participate in all the activities, but has enjoyed some. The other night some of the boys were getting some patches and difficult child got upset that he wasn't getting any and wanted to leave--we did, but really only becasue it was late and he was tired and I wanted to head off a potential melt-down. I'm wondering if other mom's have had any "luck" matching an ODD difficult child with- cub scouts? I'm really new to scouts, but I'm thrilled with the all boy aspect of it. I'm still feeling the whole thing out and am on the fence right now.