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Have you ever *really* thrown your kid out?
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<blockquote data-quote="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow" data-source="post: 368845" data-attributes="member: 8405"><p>Yes. </p><p></p><p>I personally collected our house keys from both difficult child-s (at the time they were aged 17 (and 10 months) & 21) within 24 hours of each other. </p><p></p><p>We are not safe with them in our home. </p><p></p><p>It breaks our hearts. </p><p></p><p>Our bio-daughter will only agree to see them for a very brief meeting in a VERY PUBLIC place for her own personal safety. </p><p> </p><p>We desire restoration of our relationships IF and WHEN that becomes possible...</p><p></p><p>...but NOT at "any" cost. </p><p></p><p>"Restored relationship" will never involve them living under our roof ever again. </p><p></p><p>Bio-daughter is welcome anytime... not that she needs to live here... she is not dangerous to us. She remains loving and respectful. </p><p></p><p>----------------------------</p><p>by the way We never differentiated between bio/adopted while we were raising them!!! However... every professional we have spoken to tells us our adoptees behavior is "common to adopted" individuals (especially diagnosis'd Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)) .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow, post: 368845, member: 8405"] Yes. I personally collected our house keys from both difficult child-s (at the time they were aged 17 (and 10 months) & 21) within 24 hours of each other. We are not safe with them in our home. It breaks our hearts. Our bio-daughter will only agree to see them for a very brief meeting in a VERY PUBLIC place for her own personal safety. We desire restoration of our relationships IF and WHEN that becomes possible... ...but NOT at "any" cost. "Restored relationship" will never involve them living under our roof ever again. Bio-daughter is welcome anytime... not that she needs to live here... she is not dangerous to us. She remains loving and respectful. ---------------------------- by the way We never differentiated between bio/adopted while we were raising them!!! However... every professional we have spoken to tells us our adoptees behavior is "common to adopted" individuals (especially diagnosis'd Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)) . [/QUOTE]
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