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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 592362" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Regular tdocs know little to nothing about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It is hard to find somebody who does. But if you feel there is a chance he has it, he isn't safe and you can't let him have much freedom or he could harm your babies, and you have a lot of them. It's not worth t he risk, trust me. He is four years older than the next child and a whole 12 1/2 years older than the baby. There is no way for the youngest children to fight against him if he decides to do something horrible to them. He was in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for a reason and it is rare for kids to go from RTCs to changed children. </p><p></p><p>He may have missed you and your mom or he may have missed his freedom, the money he gets, his videogames, his access to his younger siblngs...our child wanted to continue to live with us too, even after he sexually abused the two younger kids and killed our dogs, which he admitted only after he knew he wasn't coming back. His reasons for wanting to come back included the money, the toys, the trips we took, nothing about us. It is possible your child missed you, but I'm just talking about ours. </p><p></p><p>He never did come back. I don't know how we would have managed if he had. I know you have no proof your son is doing anything like ours did, but keep a sharp eye out at all times because you don't know his capabilities and you have even more little ones than we had!!! Hugs!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 592362, member: 1550"] Regular tdocs know little to nothing about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It is hard to find somebody who does. But if you feel there is a chance he has it, he isn't safe and you can't let him have much freedom or he could harm your babies, and you have a lot of them. It's not worth t he risk, trust me. He is four years older than the next child and a whole 12 1/2 years older than the baby. There is no way for the youngest children to fight against him if he decides to do something horrible to them. He was in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for a reason and it is rare for kids to go from RTCs to changed children. He may have missed you and your mom or he may have missed his freedom, the money he gets, his videogames, his access to his younger siblngs...our child wanted to continue to live with us too, even after he sexually abused the two younger kids and killed our dogs, which he admitted only after he knew he wasn't coming back. His reasons for wanting to come back included the money, the toys, the trips we took, nothing about us. It is possible your child missed you, but I'm just talking about ours. He never did come back. I don't know how we would have managed if he had. I know you have no proof your son is doing anything like ours did, but keep a sharp eye out at all times because you don't know his capabilities and you have even more little ones than we had!!! Hugs!!! [/QUOTE]
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