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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 347522" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well.......WHATEVER it is your son has......? </p><p></p><p>YOU had a bad day - so.......here's a huge, big, gigantic, welcome to the board (cause this is the first time I've talked to you) and just soze you know there's NOTHING that you've written to us here that is any kind of an eye opener or shocker or OH WOW look at what HE did kind of OMG moment. It is a typical day in the day of our lives. So you are amongst friends and people who live it and been there done that and don't pass judgment - only try to help and support. </p><p></p><p>Since you already got advice about your son? Here's just some advice for you? Breathe, relax, regroup....and find time for YOU. Take at least ONE hour a day where you do NOT say the words "MY son." Just get your nails done, forget you are a Mom, and have a bubble bath, a hot chocolate, get a pedicure, a massage, or just go for a walk. It helps YOU regroup and be able to DEAL with all the junk that you will have thrown at you. Also it's not a bad idea to see out a family therapist so that you have a professional opinion on how to level the playing field and get really solid advice on how to deal with a child who's going to need to be parented differently - and that doesn't come NATURALLY - it takes time, learning, knowledge and help. </p><p></p><p>No shame in learning OR getting help. Ignoring all of the signs and telling yourself it will change with just a pill or he'll grow out of it? Yeah - that's a shame. Not going to happen. You've come to the right place. </p><p></p><p>Hugs </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 347522, member: 4964"] Well.......WHATEVER it is your son has......? YOU had a bad day - so.......here's a huge, big, gigantic, welcome to the board (cause this is the first time I've talked to you) and just soze you know there's NOTHING that you've written to us here that is any kind of an eye opener or shocker or OH WOW look at what HE did kind of OMG moment. It is a typical day in the day of our lives. So you are amongst friends and people who live it and been there done that and don't pass judgment - only try to help and support. Since you already got advice about your son? Here's just some advice for you? Breathe, relax, regroup....and find time for YOU. Take at least ONE hour a day where you do NOT say the words "MY son." Just get your nails done, forget you are a Mom, and have a bubble bath, a hot chocolate, get a pedicure, a massage, or just go for a walk. It helps YOU regroup and be able to DEAL with all the junk that you will have thrown at you. Also it's not a bad idea to see out a family therapist so that you have a professional opinion on how to level the playing field and get really solid advice on how to deal with a child who's going to need to be parented differently - and that doesn't come NATURALLY - it takes time, learning, knowledge and help. No shame in learning OR getting help. Ignoring all of the signs and telling yourself it will change with just a pill or he'll grow out of it? Yeah - that's a shame. Not going to happen. You've come to the right place. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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