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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 295845" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>WOW! He has had a really tough year. I am sorry about the baby.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if you have ever lost a child. If you have, I am so sorry. I lost a daughter. She would have been about 2 years older than Wiz, 18 months older than Jessie. It was the most devastating thing I have ever experienced. I had about 6 weeks of bedrest before the miscarriage. I was in the middle of a college semester and my friends in the classes kept me up to date with notes and assignments. I was glad because it gave me something to throw my concentration into after the miscarriage. </p><p></p><p>I would think that the pain of the miscarriage (even guys feel intense pain, and I think your son, with his experiences with kids would feel the loss especially keenly) along with the pain, frustration and powerlessness of being attacked would certainly be a HUGE factor in his behavior.</p><p></p><p>Give those things I really think a neuropsychologist exam and some therapy will be your best bets. I would ask about the CO2 cartridges and speak with him about the dangers of huffing them and then just be watchful for drugs, but not over-push the drug issue.</p><p></p><p>He has had a LOT of emotional trauma and pain. You have him seeing all the experts you can. Give the experts some time to examine and test him. Keep a journal of his moods and give him lots of reassurances. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry about the loss of his baby, your grandchild. I know 17 is young to be a father, but given what you have said, he feels the loss of the baby very much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 295845, member: 1233"] WOW! He has had a really tough year. I am sorry about the baby. I don't know if you have ever lost a child. If you have, I am so sorry. I lost a daughter. She would have been about 2 years older than Wiz, 18 months older than Jessie. It was the most devastating thing I have ever experienced. I had about 6 weeks of bedrest before the miscarriage. I was in the middle of a college semester and my friends in the classes kept me up to date with notes and assignments. I was glad because it gave me something to throw my concentration into after the miscarriage. I would think that the pain of the miscarriage (even guys feel intense pain, and I think your son, with his experiences with kids would feel the loss especially keenly) along with the pain, frustration and powerlessness of being attacked would certainly be a HUGE factor in his behavior. Give those things I really think a neuropsychologist exam and some therapy will be your best bets. I would ask about the CO2 cartridges and speak with him about the dangers of huffing them and then just be watchful for drugs, but not over-push the drug issue. He has had a LOT of emotional trauma and pain. You have him seeing all the experts you can. Give the experts some time to examine and test him. Keep a journal of his moods and give him lots of reassurances. I am so sorry about the loss of his baby, your grandchild. I know 17 is young to be a father, but given what you have said, he feels the loss of the baby very much. [/QUOTE]
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