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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 94924" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>O.k. so I called HP today, see I catch on quick, and I told him that I am taking the dog for her sake, but it was in no way to accomodate him taking his girlfriend on a little vacation. He said, don't worry about it then, I'll take her with me. I said, no you don't understand, I'm taking the dog because I want her, but you need to know it's not to make your taking your girlfriend away any easier because you'll just take her with you and I don't want her going with you. Then I told him what an idiot he made out of himself on Halloween by walking around the neighborhood where we know everyone and holding her hand. He kept saying, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I said no, if you were sorry you would'nt haven come within a mile of Jills house on Halloween.</p><p></p><p>I guess he called his mommy as soon as I hung up on him because she called me and said she to see how I was and said she was so sorry he was being so rediculous and that she can't even listen to him anymore. She said she reminded him that is still my house he's haveing his girlfriend at and that he better be really careful about what he's doing to his daughter. She is sick over what he is doing. He tried to tell her that easy child keeps calling him saying she wants to meet her and her daughter. I know that is bull because I see everyone she calls from her phone and she hasn't called him once. </p><p></p><p>Donna, I have all my bills coming to my apartment. The mail that comes to our house is all the checks his customers send as he is self employed. I do all the books for the business, so I need to and will continue to pick up these checks every few days so I can deposit them and continue to make sure our bills are paid on time until my name is off the business and he buys me out of my half of our house. He mentioned someone else taking care of this and I told him as long as my name is on it, and that will be until the divorce is final, I will do the bookeeping and finances. Once we are divorced he can have whomever he wants do it as I will no longer be co-owner. </p><p></p><p>I haven't had to say one word to his mother. As my bff Jill keeps reminding me, I don't have to say a word, his actions are speaking for themself. </p><p></p><p>His mother said she thinks he'll stop calling her and telling her these things soon because he's not happy with the things she is saying to him. I think he felt that was the one person he could depend on taking his side and easing his guilt so that he could feel what he's doing isn't wrong, and that isn't happening. She told me he wanted to introduce his girlfriend to her and she said no. </p><p></p><p>The only thing I said to her tonight is that he's making a joke out of our 27 year marriage. It's like he's telling everyone, I finally have the person I've been looking for all my life, the last 27 years were a waste of time. I guarantee he doesn't even realize that he got two beautiful children out of the marriage because he's so selfish and consumed with his own needs, he can't even stop to see it. </p><p></p><p>Oh well. His loss, my gain :smile:</p><p></p><p>The only thing I'm afraid of is that he's trying to pressure easy child into something she isn't comfortable with. I know her, and I know she wouldn't be comfortable meeting her daughter. I also know she can't really be pushed into anything she isn't comfortable with and is very capable of standing up for herself. So I guess I don't need to say anything to her about it. My mother in law said when she comes back from FL she wants to take easy child out for lunch and see if she will talk to her. They have a special bond because my mother in law came to Romania with me when I adopted easy child, so we both saw her first. </p><p></p><p>I don't know if any of you listen to country music, but if you do there is a song called I saw her first. It's about a father who's letting his daughters fiance know he saw her first and what a strong bond a father and daughter have. It's a beautiful song and I keep telling easy child that at her wedding her grandmother and I are dancing with her to that song, because we both saw her first. I know that's off the subject, but I just had to add that in :smile:</p><p></p><p>I have to tell all of you that I am getting better and better at calling him up and telling him what I think, and it feels good. I was so afraid to stand up for myself that I was actually worried about hurting his feelings in the beginning of all of this. NOT ANYMORE!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 94924, member: 2442"] O.k. so I called HP today, see I catch on quick, and I told him that I am taking the dog for her sake, but it was in no way to accomodate him taking his girlfriend on a little vacation. He said, don't worry about it then, I'll take her with me. I said, no you don't understand, I'm taking the dog because I want her, but you need to know it's not to make your taking your girlfriend away any easier because you'll just take her with you and I don't want her going with you. Then I told him what an idiot he made out of himself on Halloween by walking around the neighborhood where we know everyone and holding her hand. He kept saying, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I said no, if you were sorry you would'nt haven come within a mile of Jills house on Halloween. I guess he called his mommy as soon as I hung up on him because she called me and said she to see how I was and said she was so sorry he was being so rediculous and that she can't even listen to him anymore. She said she reminded him that is still my house he's haveing his girlfriend at and that he better be really careful about what he's doing to his daughter. She is sick over what he is doing. He tried to tell her that easy child keeps calling him saying she wants to meet her and her daughter. I know that is bull because I see everyone she calls from her phone and she hasn't called him once. Donna, I have all my bills coming to my apartment. The mail that comes to our house is all the checks his customers send as he is self employed. I do all the books for the business, so I need to and will continue to pick up these checks every few days so I can deposit them and continue to make sure our bills are paid on time until my name is off the business and he buys me out of my half of our house. He mentioned someone else taking care of this and I told him as long as my name is on it, and that will be until the divorce is final, I will do the bookeeping and finances. Once we are divorced he can have whomever he wants do it as I will no longer be co-owner. I haven't had to say one word to his mother. As my bff Jill keeps reminding me, I don't have to say a word, his actions are speaking for themself. His mother said she thinks he'll stop calling her and telling her these things soon because he's not happy with the things she is saying to him. I think he felt that was the one person he could depend on taking his side and easing his guilt so that he could feel what he's doing isn't wrong, and that isn't happening. She told me he wanted to introduce his girlfriend to her and she said no. The only thing I said to her tonight is that he's making a joke out of our 27 year marriage. It's like he's telling everyone, I finally have the person I've been looking for all my life, the last 27 years were a waste of time. I guarantee he doesn't even realize that he got two beautiful children out of the marriage because he's so selfish and consumed with his own needs, he can't even stop to see it. Oh well. His loss, my gain [img]:smile:[/img] The only thing I'm afraid of is that he's trying to pressure easy child into something she isn't comfortable with. I know her, and I know she wouldn't be comfortable meeting her daughter. I also know she can't really be pushed into anything she isn't comfortable with and is very capable of standing up for herself. So I guess I don't need to say anything to her about it. My mother in law said when she comes back from FL she wants to take easy child out for lunch and see if she will talk to her. They have a special bond because my mother in law came to Romania with me when I adopted easy child, so we both saw her first. I don't know if any of you listen to country music, but if you do there is a song called I saw her first. It's about a father who's letting his daughters fiance know he saw her first and what a strong bond a father and daughter have. It's a beautiful song and I keep telling easy child that at her wedding her grandmother and I are dancing with her to that song, because we both saw her first. I know that's off the subject, but I just had to add that in [img]:smile:[/img] I have to tell all of you that I am getting better and better at calling him up and telling him what I think, and it feels good. I was so afraid to stand up for myself that I was actually worried about hurting his feelings in the beginning of all of this. NOT ANYMORE!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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