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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 91348" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DDD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I disagree for two major reasons. (1) That leaves her with the</p><p>burden of dealing with it alone. (2) More importantly, your</p><p>silence will lead her to either think you don't know and will</p><p>be traumatized when you find out OR that everyone wants to avoid</p><p>talking about the BIG WHITE elephant in your life.</p><p></p><p>I suggest you tell her, "Your Dad told me what he shared with</p><p>you at lunch. I am here to listen if you want to talk about it.</p><p>I have made some peace with the situtation but it takes a little</p><p>time. Even though Daddy and I aren't together anymore, we do</p><p>both love you and difficult child and always will."</p><p></p><p>That tells her that there is no reason for secrets, that you and</p><p>her Dad discuss family decisions freely even though you are no</p><p>longer together, that you are doing fine etc. I'm pretty darn</p><p>sure I'm right about this. been there done that Hugs. DDD</p><p></p><p>PS: Obviously she does not need to know the ugly details. </div></div></p><p></p><p>Ditto~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 91348, member: 2211"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DDD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I disagree for two major reasons. (1) That leaves her with the burden of dealing with it alone. (2) More importantly, your silence will lead her to either think you don't know and will be traumatized when you find out OR that everyone wants to avoid talking about the BIG WHITE elephant in your life. I suggest you tell her, "Your Dad told me what he shared with you at lunch. I am here to listen if you want to talk about it. I have made some peace with the situtation but it takes a little time. Even though Daddy and I aren't together anymore, we do both love you and difficult child and always will." That tells her that there is no reason for secrets, that you and her Dad discuss family decisions freely even though you are no longer together, that you are doing fine etc. I'm pretty darn sure I'm right about this. been there done that Hugs. DDD PS: Obviously she does not need to know the ugly details. </div></div> Ditto~ [/QUOTE]
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