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<blockquote data-quote="VidQueen" data-source="post: 193558" data-attributes="member: 5871"><p>On the waiting list<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I honestly don't know if it's for a neuropsychologist; it's for the only Early Childhood Disorder clinic we have in NW Arkansas (I'm pretty sure I saw another chatter from Little Rock; we have a branch up here for the Schmeiding Development Center.)</p><p> </p><p></p><p>I meant to go and buy that one yesterday, along with Parent Management Training. Will do today!</p><p> </p><p></p><p>I hadn't thought about that<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I'm at my computer all day (I work at home, I own a website) so typing is more convenient for me than writing in an actual book. I will take your advice and "blog" in my own Word Document. Thank you for that advice.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>This is a <em>fantastic</em> idea! I have been in commuciation with my daugter's Kindergarten teacher and, luckily, found out that the level of opposition she sees isn't even close to mine. She does see it, but it doesn't turn into rage for her. I will definatly recommend the communication book to her and see what she thinks.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Absolutely.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>This, along with your last point about parent's behaviors contributing to the opposition, I already learned the hard way. When Tay was 2 and 3 (before I had even heard of ODD) we were at our wits end, forcing her to cooperate, yelling at her, enforcing harsh punishments. It didn't take long before we figured out we were actually making it worse. I sat down with Tay and told her that I was making the "Mommy Monster" go away. And I did. I haven't yelled or screamed at my girls in over two years.</p><p>To this point I would also like to add Respect. I have a neighbor with a 14 year old boy (easy child) who is very disrespectful. My neighbor complains to me all the time that he is rude to her. But when I hear her talk to him; it's very rude and disrespectful. One of my favorite poems of all time is Children Learn What They Live. So true.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Yep. Did exactly that. She knew she would have to clean it up herself; I've never cleaned up after a rage fit. I did help make the beds; she's not quite old enough to do that.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you, thank you, Thank you...for taking the time to share your wisdom and experience.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="VidQueen, post: 193558, member: 5871"] On the waiting list:frowny: I honestly don't know if it's for a neuropsychologist; it's for the only Early Childhood Disorder clinic we have in NW Arkansas (I'm pretty sure I saw another chatter from Little Rock; we have a branch up here for the Schmeiding Development Center.) I meant to go and buy that one yesterday, along with Parent Management Training. Will do today! I hadn't thought about that:frowny: I'm at my computer all day (I work at home, I own a website) so typing is more convenient for me than writing in an actual book. I will take your advice and "blog" in my own Word Document. Thank you for that advice. This is a [I]fantastic[/I] idea! I have been in commuciation with my daugter's Kindergarten teacher and, luckily, found out that the level of opposition she sees isn't even close to mine. She does see it, but it doesn't turn into rage for her. I will definatly recommend the communication book to her and see what she thinks. Absolutely. This, along with your last point about parent's behaviors contributing to the opposition, I already learned the hard way. When Tay was 2 and 3 (before I had even heard of ODD) we were at our wits end, forcing her to cooperate, yelling at her, enforcing harsh punishments. It didn't take long before we figured out we were actually making it worse. I sat down with Tay and told her that I was making the "Mommy Monster" go away. And I did. I haven't yelled or screamed at my girls in over two years. To this point I would also like to add Respect. I have a neighbor with a 14 year old boy (easy child) who is very disrespectful. My neighbor complains to me all the time that he is rude to her. But when I hear her talk to him; it's very rude and disrespectful. One of my favorite poems of all time is Children Learn What They Live. So true. Yep. Did exactly that. She knew she would have to clean it up herself; I've never cleaned up after a rage fit. I did help make the beds; she's not quite old enough to do that. Thank you, thank you, Thank you...for taking the time to share your wisdom and experience. [/QUOTE]
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