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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 287215" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Shawna,</p><p> </p><p>You are right, your life has been a nightmare. I wish I could give you the secret of waking up and functioning normally. I don't think there is a secret though. </p><p> </p><p>I think you are doing the right thing by seeing a doctor. Hopefully the doctor will be able to give you some suggestions and assistance in how you go on from here.</p><p> </p><p>I don't think there is a normal in your nightmare. I don't think you can ever go on like before. You will find a way, I am confident, to live your life, to raise your son and have a relationship with your husband that works for all of you. </p><p> </p><p>As much as the mommy heart within you must hurt (and I can't even come close to understanding) to see your beautiful daughter in these dire conditions, there has to be an acceptance on your part before you pick up and go on. It's probably going to be like the grieving process. You will have to grieve for the loss of the daughter you had and detach for the reality of what she is. </p><p> </p><p>You can think of her and pray for her but you know you can't do anything else for her.</p><p> </p><p>You will always be her mom and she will always be your daughter. I know that regardless of how you want to give up, that you will never fully accept that this is a lost cause. But you have push that to the back shelve and deal with the things in the front on a daily basis.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry and saddened that this has come to pass for your daughter. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are feeling.</p><p> </p><p>I will pray for you daughter - I will pray that she stays safe. I will pray that you find some acceptance in this living.</p><p> </p><p>Take care of yourself, first and foremost. Your husband and your son need you more now than ever.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs.</p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 287215, member: 805"] Shawna, You are right, your life has been a nightmare. I wish I could give you the secret of waking up and functioning normally. I don't think there is a secret though. I think you are doing the right thing by seeing a doctor. Hopefully the doctor will be able to give you some suggestions and assistance in how you go on from here. I don't think there is a normal in your nightmare. I don't think you can ever go on like before. You will find a way, I am confident, to live your life, to raise your son and have a relationship with your husband that works for all of you. As much as the mommy heart within you must hurt (and I can't even come close to understanding) to see your beautiful daughter in these dire conditions, there has to be an acceptance on your part before you pick up and go on. It's probably going to be like the grieving process. You will have to grieve for the loss of the daughter you had and detach for the reality of what she is. You can think of her and pray for her but you know you can't do anything else for her. You will always be her mom and she will always be your daughter. I know that regardless of how you want to give up, that you will never fully accept that this is a lost cause. But you have push that to the back shelve and deal with the things in the front on a daily basis. I am sorry and saddened that this has come to pass for your daughter. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are feeling. I will pray for you daughter - I will pray that she stays safe. I will pray that you find some acceptance in this living. Take care of yourself, first and foremost. Your husband and your son need you more now than ever. Hugs. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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