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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 154469" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Jo, </p><p> </p><p>I told the board that you and I took a trip to Egypt. (stares off in thought) I think you took a trip to hell and are living there. </p><p> </p><p>As far as what husband is telling you about his "therapist" - bologna. I would say he's coming back to you with those things that he wants you to butt out of. My suggestion for that - if you can /care = ask to be privy to the last 15 minutes of the session to "recap" that session and things that the psychiatrist would "tell" husband to "tell" you. So that you hear it from the psychiatrist and NOT a man who is obviously struggling with truths. I used to do this with Dude - you can't imagine the things that made my jaw drop that the psychiatrist would "tell" Dude to "tell" me - I finally had my OWN session with him and did the "Now see here" bit and found that those things I found to be absurd - were never said. =Also keep a note book of what he tells you so you can verbatim go back to the psychiatrist and say on this day, he said, you said "blah blah blah." </p><p> </p><p>As far as your situation with your daughter? The only thing I can say is that misery (husband) loves company (your daughter). When a man and wife don't agree on the way to raise a child so much that it's driving a wedge between them? It's time to go. Don't misunderstand me - I don't mean divorce - I just mean leave and let them see how much fun life is without your input. In the mean time - you discover how life is without stress, daughter, husband, MOnkeyboy...etc. </p><p> </p><p>BRAVO on giving up meat and doing the exercise thing! WAY TO GO!!!!!!! THAT IS FANTASTIC - I mean despite the challenges you are faced with every day you are ACTUALLY doing something for yourself! WAY TO GO!!!!!!! I am so proud!!!! </p><p> </p><p>Sometimes I think when we are so close to a daily problem we aren't able to think, take a moment, or see anything clearly. I'm sorry that you are not happy. And yes, I know what you mean about the poison. Great analogy. When I feel like that I am sure I could spit like a cobra and maime someone. And in that state? Wouldn't care. Not a healthy place to be. </p><p> </p><p>I hope you find a way to continue to detoxify your life. </p><p> </p><p>Had to laugh about breaking the bong - she probably forgot where she put it. I wish I had some answers on that part - What would be the worst thing that could happen if you REALLY put your foot down? </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 154469, member: 4964"] Jo, I told the board that you and I took a trip to Egypt. (stares off in thought) I think you took a trip to hell and are living there. As far as what husband is telling you about his "therapist" - bologna. I would say he's coming back to you with those things that he wants you to butt out of. My suggestion for that - if you can /care = ask to be privy to the last 15 minutes of the session to "recap" that session and things that the psychiatrist would "tell" husband to "tell" you. So that you hear it from the psychiatrist and NOT a man who is obviously struggling with truths. I used to do this with Dude - you can't imagine the things that made my jaw drop that the psychiatrist would "tell" Dude to "tell" me - I finally had my OWN session with him and did the "Now see here" bit and found that those things I found to be absurd - were never said. =Also keep a note book of what he tells you so you can verbatim go back to the psychiatrist and say on this day, he said, you said "blah blah blah." As far as your situation with your daughter? The only thing I can say is that misery (husband) loves company (your daughter). When a man and wife don't agree on the way to raise a child so much that it's driving a wedge between them? It's time to go. Don't misunderstand me - I don't mean divorce - I just mean leave and let them see how much fun life is without your input. In the mean time - you discover how life is without stress, daughter, husband, MOnkeyboy...etc. BRAVO on giving up meat and doing the exercise thing! WAY TO GO!!!!!!! THAT IS FANTASTIC - I mean despite the challenges you are faced with every day you are ACTUALLY doing something for yourself! WAY TO GO!!!!!!! I am so proud!!!! Sometimes I think when we are so close to a daily problem we aren't able to think, take a moment, or see anything clearly. I'm sorry that you are not happy. And yes, I know what you mean about the poison. Great analogy. When I feel like that I am sure I could spit like a cobra and maime someone. And in that state? Wouldn't care. Not a healthy place to be. I hope you find a way to continue to detoxify your life. Had to laugh about breaking the bong - she probably forgot where she put it. I wish I had some answers on that part - What would be the worst thing that could happen if you REALLY put your foot down? Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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