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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 67764" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I got lucky and don't have a child using drugs. So, do take any suggestions I make with a large grain of salt.</p><p></p><p>I would give him the information that would keep him away from his old friends -- that is, rehabs and shelters. I would then tell him that he had burned me once too often and I now needed a little more than just words before I could do any more. If he really wants to be clean, he should be asking for your help getting into Canaan or any other rehab he thinks appropriate. I would be willing to help him find out what he needs to do to get into one but no more. I would definitely let him know that you would not help financially nor let him come back home until you are sure he is clean and going to try to stay that way. I would give him all the emotional support I could.</p><p></p><p>Other than that, I think you've already said it all and have truly made your decision. It sounds like a good decision given the facts.</p><p></p><p>HUGS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 67764, member: 3626"] I got lucky and don't have a child using drugs. So, do take any suggestions I make with a large grain of salt. I would give him the information that would keep him away from his old friends -- that is, rehabs and shelters. I would then tell him that he had burned me once too often and I now needed a little more than just words before I could do any more. If he really wants to be clean, he should be asking for your help getting into Canaan or any other rehab he thinks appropriate. I would be willing to help him find out what he needs to do to get into one but no more. I would definitely let him know that you would not help financially nor let him come back home until you are sure he is clean and going to try to stay that way. I would give him all the emotional support I could. Other than that, I think you've already said it all and have truly made your decision. It sounds like a good decision given the facts. HUGS [/QUOTE]
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