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Help-Im waivering w no support from husband and a crying gtg on the streets
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 526926" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>OHhhhhh the 23 yo is the one that you are doing this for????? MY bad - CUT THE PHONE OFF. LORD......get yourself some peace and quiet, get thee to a therapist and find a way to destress..........and let him figure out how to live life on his own for a while. In the mean time - put your life back together, and breathe. He's figured out how to manipulate people his whole life - it should not be hard for him to get along - wihtout your support other than - words, and prayers. </p><p></p><p>If you WANT that 23 year old to EVER stand on his own - you'lre going to have to toughen up and do this. If we all wrote our stories to you - you'd sit there with your mouth open. I threw mine out at 17 - and he lived in parks under bridges and with a sociopath/psychopath drug dealer. He ate out of dumpsters, and I'm sure wanted to come home. He FINALLY got to see what he had......and lost. IT was sobering for him. He HAD to work to eat. He HAD to work to be clean - HE HAD to work - to buy things he needed. No one was there to do it for him. He learned to rely on himself - that's not bad - that's what growing up is all about and some of our kids need a boost like that to get going. Nothing wrong with that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 526926, member: 4964"] OHhhhhh the 23 yo is the one that you are doing this for????? MY bad - CUT THE PHONE OFF. LORD......get yourself some peace and quiet, get thee to a therapist and find a way to destress..........and let him figure out how to live life on his own for a while. In the mean time - put your life back together, and breathe. He's figured out how to manipulate people his whole life - it should not be hard for him to get along - wihtout your support other than - words, and prayers. If you WANT that 23 year old to EVER stand on his own - you'lre going to have to toughen up and do this. If we all wrote our stories to you - you'd sit there with your mouth open. I threw mine out at 17 - and he lived in parks under bridges and with a sociopath/psychopath drug dealer. He ate out of dumpsters, and I'm sure wanted to come home. He FINALLY got to see what he had......and lost. IT was sobering for him. He HAD to work to eat. He HAD to work to be clean - HE HAD to work - to buy things he needed. No one was there to do it for him. He learned to rely on himself - that's not bad - that's what growing up is all about and some of our kids need a boost like that to get going. Nothing wrong with that. [/QUOTE]
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