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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 140163"><p>We struggled with this for 13 years. Hah....he was colic, had to control things THEN. No, I believe when i was pregnant. He made me sick.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/nonono.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":nonono:" title="nonono :nonono:" data-shortname=":nonono:" /> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p> </p><p>School...big, big issue. In his mind he needs to control things. When he can not, he has anxiety attacks and things get way out of hand.</p><p>We work on recognizing the signs of anxiety. Other options. Taking things ONE issue/item/problem at a time.</p><p> </p><p>We were always told no ADHD. Yet, taking the medication helps him. (Per difficult child) Teachers say they see some improvement. He does not take it on days there is no school. And he has forgotten it in the mornings before school. (he is home alone 3 days a week) </p><p> </p><p>Yep, anxiety. And the ODD. Happy little kid one minute and a split of a half second for no apparent reason there is this child I never saw before. Here he can do anything his heart desires, but when he turns into this other child, he could tell me the sky is RED..as long as it is something he can argue about!!! That I just do not get because inside he HAS to know he is wrong, but he would never admit it. And there I am sucked into another argument with a child. Not even realizing it until too late.</p><p> </p><p>Take a walk. Breathe. Take a bath. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bath.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bath:" title="bath :bath:" data-shortname=":bath:" /> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":wine:" title="wine :wine:" data-shortname=":wine:" /> Time for YOU. Regroup.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>You have so much going on. Take a moment for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 140163"] We struggled with this for 13 years. Hah....he was colic, had to control things THEN. No, I believe when i was pregnant. He made me sick.:nonono: :rofl: School...big, big issue. In his mind he needs to control things. When he can not, he has anxiety attacks and things get way out of hand. We work on recognizing the signs of anxiety. Other options. Taking things ONE issue/item/problem at a time. We were always told no ADHD. Yet, taking the medication helps him. (Per difficult child) Teachers say they see some improvement. He does not take it on days there is no school. And he has forgotten it in the mornings before school. (he is home alone 3 days a week) Yep, anxiety. And the ODD. Happy little kid one minute and a split of a half second for no apparent reason there is this child I never saw before. Here he can do anything his heart desires, but when he turns into this other child, he could tell me the sky is RED..as long as it is something he can argue about!!! That I just do not get because inside he HAS to know he is wrong, but he would never admit it. And there I am sucked into another argument with a child. Not even realizing it until too late. Take a walk. Breathe. Take a bath. :bath: :toast: Time for YOU. Regroup. You have so much going on. Take a moment for you. [/QUOTE]
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