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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 278292" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. I would post this on "Teens and Substance Abuse" or "Parent Emeritus" because those are parents who have raised kids to adulthood and have dealt with this desperation. It's a terrible dilemma. My daughter abused drugs for several years and we made her leave. She was fortunate enough that her brother took her in, but he was stricter than us and she straightened out.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion you should not deal with his behavior. If this were me, I would probably just tell hub I was leaving until the child did and then do it. I'm very high-strung and that would be the end of me. But we are all different. I hope you can come to a peaceful conclusion.</p><p></p><p>Suggestion: Join narc-anon. This is a great organization and you will get TONS of real time advice on how to deal with this soon-to-be-adult as well as your marriage. Everyone who goes to narc-anon in some way deals with a drug abusers and the horrific behaviors that accompany it. Do yourself a favor and go to a meeting. (((Hugs))) Been there/done that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 278292, member: 1550"] Hi. I would post this on "Teens and Substance Abuse" or "Parent Emeritus" because those are parents who have raised kids to adulthood and have dealt with this desperation. It's a terrible dilemma. My daughter abused drugs for several years and we made her leave. She was fortunate enough that her brother took her in, but he was stricter than us and she straightened out. in my opinion you should not deal with his behavior. If this were me, I would probably just tell hub I was leaving until the child did and then do it. I'm very high-strung and that would be the end of me. But we are all different. I hope you can come to a peaceful conclusion. Suggestion: Join narc-anon. This is a great organization and you will get TONS of real time advice on how to deal with this soon-to-be-adult as well as your marriage. Everyone who goes to narc-anon in some way deals with a drug abusers and the horrific behaviors that accompany it. Do yourself a favor and go to a meeting. (((Hugs))) Been there/done that. [/QUOTE]
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