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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 110771"><p>We would like to express our complete dissatisfaction and frustration over a recent event that happened at your office. </p><p></p><p>As you are aware, we have been working to do the best we can for our son. We recognize that he has a variety of problems that we are not able to fix while he is at home. As such we sought help for him. We realize that snags along the way can happen. However, blatant disregard for all the work that has been done and the progress T has made, as well as his well-being, is unacceptable.</p><p></p><p>When we brought T to the County Dhs office on December 26, 2007, to meet with our case worker, K, and we were prepared for a discussion. T was not at all prepared to handle the event that unfolded prior to meeting with K. Bio-mom appeared.</p><p></p><p>None of us were prepared to see Ts bio mother. We also were not prepared for bio-mom to talk to T. Bio-mom said that C had said that it was ok to do so. We had no reason at that point to doubt bio-mom as no one else came out but her, her husband and her step-daughter. </p><p></p><p>When we went back, our case worker had T step into the meeting room and stopped us outside the door to discuss the situation. K explained that she had no idea that Sue was to be there. We also found out that S was told not to communicate with T. </p><p></p><p>My concern here is that nothing was done to stop her from seeing and/or communicating with T. No precautions were taken. She is no longer T's parent and as such she is not to have contact with him. So why we were not alerted that she was there? Why were we not given the opportunity to take T through the other door before she came through? With the past dynamic why didnt C walk her out to make sure there was no contact? </p><p></p><p>This isn't the first time we've had such concerns. When Ts former step-sister was taken to the same campus () as him, we raised concerns. However, contact still continues to happen. Now contact was allowed between T's biological mother and him. This has already been detrimental to him. When he returned to his cottage at F he went into full meltdown. I am sure we are yet to see the end of the fallout from this recent event. </p><p></p><p>My question to you is: What steps are you taking and will you be taking in the future to insure that this does not happen again? What steps are you taking and will you be taking to stop contact between T and his former step-sister?</p><p></p><p>Answering these questions is crucial to T's treatment. I appreciate a response at your earliest possible convenience.</p><p></p><p>Respectfully, </p><p></p><p>Mr & Mrs Cat in the Hat</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 110771"] We would like to express our complete dissatisfaction and frustration over a recent event that happened at your office. As you are aware, we have been working to do the best we can for our son. We recognize that he has a variety of problems that we are not able to fix while he is at home. As such we sought help for him. We realize that snags along the way can happen. However, blatant disregard for all the work that has been done and the progress T has made, as well as his well-being, is unacceptable. When we brought T to the County Dhs office on December 26, 2007, to meet with our case worker, K, and we were prepared for a discussion. T was not at all prepared to handle the event that unfolded prior to meeting with K. Bio-mom appeared. None of us were prepared to see Ts bio mother. We also were not prepared for bio-mom to talk to T. Bio-mom said that C had said that it was ok to do so. We had no reason at that point to doubt bio-mom as no one else came out but her, her husband and her step-daughter. When we went back, our case worker had T step into the meeting room and stopped us outside the door to discuss the situation. K explained that she had no idea that Sue was to be there. We also found out that S was told not to communicate with T. My concern here is that nothing was done to stop her from seeing and/or communicating with T. No precautions were taken. She is no longer T's parent and as such she is not to have contact with him. So why we were not alerted that she was there? Why were we not given the opportunity to take T through the other door before she came through? With the past dynamic why didnt C walk her out to make sure there was no contact? This isn't the first time we've had such concerns. When Ts former step-sister was taken to the same campus () as him, we raised concerns. However, contact still continues to happen. Now contact was allowed between T's biological mother and him. This has already been detrimental to him. When he returned to his cottage at F he went into full meltdown. I am sure we are yet to see the end of the fallout from this recent event. My question to you is: What steps are you taking and will you be taking in the future to insure that this does not happen again? What steps are you taking and will you be taking to stop contact between T and his former step-sister? Answering these questions is crucial to T's treatment. I appreciate a response at your earliest possible convenience. Respectfully, Mr & Mrs Cat in the Hat [/QUOTE]
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