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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 110829" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I think that you might want to make it an even more brief note, and ask for an appointment to discuss concerns. You're (rightfully) very angry about this situation, and unfortunately it's difficult to put these things into writing without that anger coming through.</p><p></p><p>How would you feel about a note (cc'd and return receipt) along the lines of</p><p></p><p>"husband and I were concerned regarding our recent meeting at the DHS office at which T's mother was present without forewarning to us. In order to avoid such an uncomfortable situation in the future, we would like to meet in order to discuss how such a situation might be handled with less upset in the future.</p><p></p><p>While we are certain that this situation did not come about with an intention to cause anyone stress, it was very difficult for us in that we were not prepared to see T's mother in the room. Hopefully we can work together to avoid any such uncomfortable situation for T and us in the future. Please contact me at: to set an appointment to talk at your earliest convenience."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 110829, member: 99"] I think that you might want to make it an even more brief note, and ask for an appointment to discuss concerns. You're (rightfully) very angry about this situation, and unfortunately it's difficult to put these things into writing without that anger coming through. How would you feel about a note (cc'd and return receipt) along the lines of "husband and I were concerned regarding our recent meeting at the DHS office at which T's mother was present without forewarning to us. In order to avoid such an uncomfortable situation in the future, we would like to meet in order to discuss how such a situation might be handled with less upset in the future. While we are certain that this situation did not come about with an intention to cause anyone stress, it was very difficult for us in that we were not prepared to see T's mother in the room. Hopefully we can work together to avoid any such uncomfortable situation for T and us in the future. Please contact me at: to set an appointment to talk at your earliest convenience." [/QUOTE]
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