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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 691229" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>Short update. I deduced that it happened Thursday afternoon or evening... Probably evening. Because I remembered I got on her case that night for some of her behaviors...and she cried off and on that evening, after checking on her several times. She doesn't usually cry, just clams up.</p><p></p><p>Plus, in one of her texts last night, she mentioned that she was upset and I didn't notice. I did... But it is hard to do much when they keep saying to get out of their room and close the door...</p><p></p><p>I asked her about the time frame, and she verified it was on Thursday. It falls within the 72 hours for still risking the morning after pill. Rushed to the store and bought it and she took it. </p><p></p><p>We have always had the discussion about if they had sex (consensual or not) I would help them get the morning after pill. She has been on BC pills but stopped them on her own. Refuses to take, because "I am not having sex!"</p><p></p><p>I feel like things are spinning out of control. This was my NT child...now my major Difficult Child. It is worse than the Difficult Child status of older sister... Who is a Difficult Child based more on her impulsiveness. Younger sis is Difficult Child because she will do things with great advance preparation and thought. She is good at being the sweet innocent thing she looks like.</p><p></p><p>Case in point. Last night, she sent me a photo of her at her friends house. But, it wasn't Sophia's house, it was Aleyna's. The photo wasn't taken yesterday, but a day earlier, because I remembered the outfit, then I went upstairs and double checked...it was in the dirty clothes!</p><p></p><p>In 8th grade, she tried to spend the night at a boys house, when she was suppose to go to a girls sleepover. I wouldn't drop her off at the address she told me, because I knew the girl didn't live there. We drove back home, and she "let me talk to the girls dad" who explained that he and his wife separated, and the party was at his house. </p><p></p><p>I still didn't buy it. daughter was confused...I had talked to a parent, do why couldn't she spend the night there? I told her I had talked to someone, yes, a parent, no. I told her male voices were much lower than a 13yo!</p><p></p><p>Just do many lies, for so long. I catch a lot of them, but I know she has gotten by with some. KSM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 691229, member: 12511"] Short update. I deduced that it happened Thursday afternoon or evening... Probably evening. Because I remembered I got on her case that night for some of her behaviors...and she cried off and on that evening, after checking on her several times. She doesn't usually cry, just clams up. Plus, in one of her texts last night, she mentioned that she was upset and I didn't notice. I did... But it is hard to do much when they keep saying to get out of their room and close the door... I asked her about the time frame, and she verified it was on Thursday. It falls within the 72 hours for still risking the morning after pill. Rushed to the store and bought it and she took it. We have always had the discussion about if they had sex (consensual or not) I would help them get the morning after pill. She has been on BC pills but stopped them on her own. Refuses to take, because "I am not having sex!" I feel like things are spinning out of control. This was my NT child...now my major Difficult Child. It is worse than the Difficult Child status of older sister... Who is a Difficult Child based more on her impulsiveness. Younger sis is Difficult Child because she will do things with great advance preparation and thought. She is good at being the sweet innocent thing she looks like. Case in point. Last night, she sent me a photo of her at her friends house. But, it wasn't Sophia's house, it was Aleyna's. The photo wasn't taken yesterday, but a day earlier, because I remembered the outfit, then I went upstairs and double checked...it was in the dirty clothes! In 8th grade, she tried to spend the night at a boys house, when she was suppose to go to a girls sleepover. I wouldn't drop her off at the address she told me, because I knew the girl didn't live there. We drove back home, and she "let me talk to the girls dad" who explained that he and his wife separated, and the party was at his house. I still didn't buy it. daughter was confused...I had talked to a parent, do why couldn't she spend the night there? I told her I had talked to someone, yes, a parent, no. I told her male voices were much lower than a 13yo! Just do many lies, for so long. I catch a lot of them, but I know she has gotten by with some. KSM [/QUOTE]
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